Finding a girlfriend in school is the dream of many boys, but how to pursue a girl in school? This article will introduce you to some methods and techniques.
1. Understand her interests and hobbies
Before pursuing a girl, you must first understand her interests and hobbies . This information can be obtained through daily communication or social media. If you have common interests and hobbies, it will be easier to open up the topic and increase the sense of closeness between you.
2. Participate in more activities
There are many activities in the school, such as sports meets, art performances, etc. Participating in more of these activities can increase your exposure and have more contact with girls. At the same time, showing one's talents and charm in activities is also an important factor in attracting girls.
3. Be a caring little brother
Girls like to be taken care of and cared about, so being a caring little brother is very popular. You can help her carry her school bag, borrow notes, deliver water, etc. Although these small gestures are simple, they can make girls feel your warmth and care.
4. Don’t be too proactive
Although pursuing girls requires a certain amount of initiative, you should not be too proactive. If you always take the initiative to ask her out, send messages, call, etc., it may make her feel too stressed and resentful. It's also important to maintain an appropriate amount of distance and mystery.
5. Respect her choice
Finally, whether you successfully catch her or not, you must respect her choice. If she doesn't want to be with you, don't force it. After all, everyone has their own ideas and values, and we should respect and understand each other.
Finding a girlfriend in school requires certain skills and patience. It is very important to understand her interests and hobbies, participate in more activities, be a caring brother, not to be too proactive, and respect her choices. I hope the above methods can help everyone successfully pursue the girl they like!
