Is all love fair? This is an ancient and profound question. In love, sometimes we find that we have given a lot but received very little; sometimes we feel ignored or betrayed by the other person. So, is love fair?
1. Uncertainty of love
Love is a complex and changeable emotion. Not under our control. Sometimes we may meet someone and fall in love with him/her at first sight, but the other person does not feel the same way about us. This feeling of inequality makes us feel that love is unfair.
Love also has limitations in time and space. Sometimes two people love each other but cannot be together due to work, school or family reasons. This unattainable love feels painful and unfair.
2. Sacrifice and dedication in love
In love, we often need to make sacrifices and sacrifices. Sometimes we give up our own dreams, pursuits and interests and silently pay for the happiness of the other person. However, not everyone gets the same rewards.
Sometimes we will find that we have done a lot for each other, but the other party has not done the same. This imbalance makes us feel inferior and that love is unfair.
3. Hurt and betrayal in love
In love, we may also suffer hurt and betrayal. Sometimes we find that the other person has lied, cheated, or betrayed us. This feeling of being hurt makes us feel that love is cruel and unfair.
Sometimes we hurt each other because of our own fault. We may regret our actions and try to make amends for our mistakes, but sometimes it is irreversible. This guilt and irreparable harm leaves us feeling humbled.
4. Happiness and miracles in love
Although there are unfairness, sacrifices and injuries in love, there are also many happiness and miracles. Sometimes two people can understand, support and accompany each other and go through the joys, sorrows and joys of life together. This mutual care and happiness makes us feel that love is beautiful and fair.
Sometimes two people can overcome difficulties and challenges and achieve their dreams and goals. This joint effort and success makes us feel that love is fair and valuable.
5. Growth and revelation in love
Whether love is fair or not, it is an important life experience. Through love, we can learn how to give, understand and tolerate. We can also gain growth and enlightenment from love and become stronger and mature.
Although there is unfairness and humbleness in love, we cannot give up the pursuit of love because of this. Only after experiencing the joys, sorrows and joys of love can we truly understand the meaning of love and find our own happiness.
Love is not always fair, it can bring sacrifice, hurt, and uncertainty. However, love can also bring us happiness, miracles and growth. Regardless of whether love is fair or not, it is a precious and profound experience worth pursuing and cherishing.
