Most girls are sensitive and delicate. Only boys with the ability to empathize are more likely to resonate with girls and make girls attracted. So how can you improve your ability to empathize and increase your success rate in chasing girls?
1. Give her what she needs instead of what you want to give her
You see, girls are usually more economical, so on Valentine’s Day I gave her a bouquet of "cauliflower" when I went to school, which is beautiful and practical. It is both ornamental and satiating. The problem is that just because someone is with you to save money for you, it doesn’t mean that they really don’t want to buy what they like.
The way you treat her well is just what you think she needs, but in fact it is not necessarily what she wants. For her, loving her in a way that makes her feel comfortable is what makes her feel most at ease.
2. Keep your true heart and accept her differences
People with strong empathy are I can be myself and allow the other person to be herself.
Even if you have differences in personality and ideas, you can still communicate and understand. It does not mean that because I like you, I will use everything about you as a standard to demand myself.
It doesn’t mean that if you like me, you should compromise for me and listen to me in everything.
I hope everyone can achieve what they most yearn for and find the love that makes them most comfortable.
3. Understand her thoughts and give her pertinent suggestions
Perhaps accept that a person is different from yourself Thoughts are relatively easy, but it is relatively difficult for most people to understand a person and even consider issues from her thoughts.
The best thing about people with strong empathy is that they can always understand from the other person's perspective why she has such thoughts, and then make suggestions based on her needs.
In fact, many times girls are not so unreasonable. You must agree with her point of view.
But who likes to hear you say: "Oh, you are wrong to think like this, blah blah..."
Even if she is wrong, she also wants to fight with you. In the end, if you want a girl to listen to you, first of all, we have to calm her down emotionally and let her know that you really understand her, so that your suggestions will appear much more pertinent, otherwise It always feels like Tang Monk chanting sutras.
The psychological differences between men and women sometimes even exceed the physical differences. For girls, the most difficult thing is to let a boy understand them.
As for boys, they just feel that girls have too many twists and turns in their hearts, so they don’t have to think about it.
So veryThe more single people are, the more they feel that girls are pretentious. People who are really not anxious about finding a partner are surrounded by girls.
Because the charm of a person's personality is often the biggest magic weapon to attract others to be close to him.
If empathy happens to be your strong point, then your success rate in chasing girls will also be very high.
