In the process of chasing a girl, the girl does not have any admiration for you, but she does not hate you either. She is the indifferent type to you. They will adopt an attitude of not taking the initiative or rejecting you. When many boys encounter this situation, they will feel very uncomfortable because they don’t know how to develop the relationship between the two of them...
The reason why girls don’t take the initiative and refuse.
The reason why girls don’t take the initiative and refuse is actually a kind of self-protection.
With the development of the Internet and the expansion of social circles, they can meet more people of the opposite sex and have more opportunities to choose boys.
Among the many suitors (spare tires), they are temporarily unable to judge their sincerity and are afraid that they will be hurt if they give their sincerity in advance, so they test the boys who pursue her by not taking the initiative or refusing.
In fact, it is an evolutionary strategy for girls to raise a spare child, because in the original relationship between the sexes, women need to carry the pregnancy for ten months plus breastfeeding time (starting from a few years), while men only need to devote a few minutes. , so women need to choose a more reliable partner to feel safe.
Do you want to pursue a girl if she doesn’t take the initiative or refuse?
Since a girl doesn’t reject you, it means you are still pursuing her. opportunity, but your current performance is not enough to mobilize girls' enthusiasm for love!
When faced with girls who do not take the initiative or refuse, you should first consider whether you have shown all your strengths - appearance, conversation, etc. , get along with each other, if you feel that the girl will not take the initiative or refuse after just a little trial, it only means that you are too impatient and do not really like this girl.
If you have made a lot of efforts for a girl and she is always in a state of not taking the initiative or rejecting, then the girl really just uses you as a backup, so give up as soon as possible!
p>What to do if a girl doesn’t take the initiative or refuse
1. Take the initiative to contact girls more, ask her out a few times, and let her She is used to your closeness, and girls are generally slow to warm up (if you are less attractive, they will be even slower to warm up). When getting along, take care of girls, care about girls, love girls, and express your love.
2. Show your own value, even if you love her very much! If you don’t know how to show your own value, then the girl’s lustful mentality will still reject you and leave you alone. You must learn to behave in front of girls and let her appreciate you. This is the beginning of a relationship.
3. Give up as soon as possible and chase another girl. Sometimes feelings are really important. If you can't trigger a girl's feeling of wanting to fall in love, then it will be difficult no matter how you pursue it. Instead of striving for a low-probability relationship, it's better to choose another goal..
