If money is mixed with feelings, no matter how close your previous relationship was, there will seem to be cracks. For example, the girl you like asks you to borrow money... After these twists and turns, the originally good relationship seems to have changed. In fact, before boys become suspicious, they might as well analyze what it means when a girl asks you to borrow money? Is she really in trouble or is she trying to defraud you of your money?
1. She wants to defraud you of your money
If the girl is just a friend you met online or through a friend, but the two of you have never met, and If you have known her for a short time, the girl is most likely trying to defraud you of money when she asks you to borrow money. Because if you really encounter difficulties, you can borrow money from friends with whom you have good relationships. After all, friends on the Internet do not understand you well enough.
Moreover, if you meet a girl on the Internet, you can chat occasionally. No one knows anyone, and you can say many things to her that you cannot say to acquaintances. But Internet fraud has been so serious recently, so I'd better try not to lend her money because there is no guarantee. Especially when the number is extremely large, you will cry when you encounter a scammer.
2. It’s really difficult
Before a girl asks you to borrow money, you have to see what she is like. people. How well you know her and so on. If you usually play very well, but she is often unknown, she will take care of everything by herself, will not ask others for help, and will not default on borrowing money. If a girl like this asks you to borrow money, it means she is really desperate. If the amount is acceptable to you, then help if you can.
And if the other person is the girl you like in real life, the kind of girl you already know, if she borrows money, just borrow it even if you feel aggrieved. In this way, you will also help her solve the problem, and there will be more contact between the two of you, so why not do it.
3. Test you
Isn't there a saying that says, "I want to see if someone loves you. It’s just to see if he is willing to spend money for you.” Some girls think that since you are willing to spend money for you, then you will definitely be happy to lend you money! This is the mentality of girls asking you to borrow money. It is undoubtedly a test for you. In this case, the amount of money a girl will lend you is usually not very large, and if you agree to send a red envelope, the other party will usually not actually accept it, or they will give you feedback in other forms immediately after receiving your red envelope. However, if the amount is too large and beyond your acceptance range, you still have to be cautious. After all, if a girl uses such a large amount to test you, it also proves her distrust of you, and there is no need for you to take this risk.
Although it is not necessary for a girl to borrow money from you,If she can be beaten to death, it means that she just wants to cheat money, but when it comes to money, it is recommended that boys be careful. After all, it’s not easy to earn some money from hard work. It would be great if it can really help girls. If you are cheated, you will only suffer.
