Emotional Quotient refers to emotional quotient, or EQ for short, which is a concept corresponding to Intelligence Quotient.
According to Goleman and other researchers, emotional intelligence consists of five characteristics: self-awareness, control of emotions, self-motivation, recognition of other people's emotions, and handling of relationships. It is generally believed that people with high emotional intelligence have better communication skills, communication skills, and handling skills. This is also a key factor that has significant advantages for chasing girls!
How to improve emotional intelligence
When getting along with girls, honest and straight men often make girls unhappy. Sometimes they even offend girls without knowing why, which often arouses girls. Greater negativity. The essence of this phenomenon is a manifestation of insufficient emotional intelligence.
Therefore, the author will share with you some methods to improve your emotional intelligence so that you can be more harmonious and comfortable when getting along with girls.
a) Never complain. Some boys with low EQ always like to complain about girls’ petty moods and tempers, especially straight men. Being outspoken always makes girls annoying. The behavior of complaining will not have any practical effect and will only arouse dissatisfaction among girls.
b) Boys with positive emotions and high emotional intelligence always have positive emotions such as optimism, humor, and motivation. Therefore, when getting along with girls, they can infect the girls well, making the two people get along well. Be happy.
c) Praise each other, boys who can praise girls will not have low emotional intelligence, because he can always see the advantages of others, which will promote his progress in a subtle way, and he will only criticize others Boys tend to be complacent.
d) Maintain a good mood. Boys with high emotional intelligence always have a good mood, psychologically implying that they are happy, implying that everyone around them likes them, and implying that they are the best.
Techniques for training emotional intelligence
1. The first technique for training emotional intelligence is to improve your own Stress resistance. For example, if you don’t have a car, a house, or a deposit, you can still face huge real-life pressure to flirt with girls. This is to exercise the limit of your ability to withstand stress.
2. The second skill for training emotional intelligence is to learn to grasp the details when getting along with girls. For example, when a girl says A, what she actually wants to express is B, and the basis for understanding a girl's subtext is to grasp the details. When you are full of details, girls will also be moved by your warmth and thoughtfulness.
3. The third skill for training emotional intelligence is to try to read more books, so that you will have a broader perspective.More multi-dimensional thinking, richer experiences... and more flexible solutions when getting along with girls.
4. The fourth skill for training emotional intelligence is to learn to be grateful, so that everything you do will be meaningful. After learning to be grateful, girls will also understand your love more deeply.
