When many boys are chasing girls, or when they are usually getting along with girls, they have more or less experienced being complained about by girls as "straight men". Little do they know that this is the fundamental reason why they are single. Next, let’s take a look at the three differences between straight men and warm men!
1. Inability to be flexible
Many straight men cannot fall in love because they cannot be flexible and do not understand How to get along with girls, how you usually behave with your gay friends is how you behave in front of girls.
In front of a girl, a straight man should show "the way she likes", not "the way you like yourself". (Only by responding to girls’ sense of need can we become attractive to girls)
Many straight men admit that this is what I am, and I don’t know how to get along with girls... In fact, this is a kind of psychological self. Set limits!
Straight men think too complicatedly. No one will chase girls and understand them at the beginning, so I hope that at the beginning the straight men will just feel it and not think about any complexity. Things to do, relax your body and mind.
All experience comes from your experience. When a straight man gets along with girls more, he will naturally know how to behave in the corresponding situation.
2. Too Selfish
Expressing yourself is something that many straight men often touch upon when chasing girls. Minefield.
If a straight man’s ego is attractive enough, it would be a good display; otherwise, if he displays himself too much, he will only be criticized by girls!
Mature stories often unfold in the "third person (God's perspective)". What the straight men lack in the process of getting along with girls is this God's perspective.
You need to understand that what you say and do is different in your eyes and in the eyes of girls. In some cases, it is even completely opposite.
Only by examining your words and deeds from God’s perspective can you improve your score in the eyes of girls.
How to show yourself to girls
1) Sufficient self-confidence
2) Positive attitude
3) The appeal of humor< /p>
4) Elegant dress
5) Good conversation
3. Not pursuing change
What should I do if a girl says I am wretched? What should I do if a girl says I am annoying? What should I do if a girl says I am childish? What should I do if a girl says I'm ugly...
A straight man can be whatever a girl likes. If he still can't attract girls, that's totally useless.Obviously girls have already resisted you in their hearts.
The reason for change is to know more things. Whether it is right or wrong, good or bad, you all know more. Once you understand it one day, it is a good thing.
These changes may or may not be useful, but after the changes you will gain more knowledge about getting along with girls.
These are difficult to achieve for a straight man who does not pursue change.
