I often hear friends around me sigh like this, saying that their boyfriend was clearly not like this before falling in love, but after falling in love, he discovered how much he loves to act coquettishly... This kind of complaint is not just an example, there are many My friends all agree, so today I want to ask you, how many changes do you account for after boys fall in love?
In fact, many boys are like this! After falling in love, they become very aggressive:
A girl accidentally said that if she wants a lipstick, you will arrange it for her as soon as she is paid;
p>A girl says she wants to travel, so you work overtime every day to complete your work, and then ask for leave to accompany her;
She keeps buying cosmetics every month, but you even buy one that costs tens of yuan. Shirts, you have to hesitate for a long time;
It’s hard to fall in love with a pair of sneakers, and she says she wants to buy a set of clothes, and you immediately give up what you love to satisfy her;
… ....
You try your best to give her what she wants, but girls often ask this: Have you ever thought about our future?
The invisible pressure brought by it makes you have to face this reality that you should not accept so quickly. And the boy who doesn't respond at this time does not mean that he has no ideas in his heart.
On the contrary, I believe that you have your own plan in your heart. You know how much you weigh, and you also know clearly how much you can bear and pay.
It is also at this moment that you are really afraid that you will not be able to give to her in the future.
In fact, boys’ aggressiveness at this time is the same as girls’ suspicion. They are actually a sign of fear that the other person will leave.
Because girls feel insecure, they use pushing away again and again to prove the other person’s sincerity to them.
As for boys, they prove that they are worthy by standing up again and again.
I heard someone say before:
Holding on is just a sign of insufficient ability.
But many people’s bravery has nothing to do with their own abilities, but they are just willing to bear all this.
If you can make people around you feel at ease and rely on you, you will feel very happy.
But sometimes, we can also be a little less insistent. After all, you also need someone to hurt you. Let your woman know more, get closer to you, and share more, so that you can They won't be separated due to misunderstanding, are you right?
