It is normal to be rejected when chasing a girl, but many boys just can’t get over this hurdle and can’t let go of the girl. So in this case, can they continue to chase the girl? If you do the following 3 points, you will still have the chance. Opportunity:
1. Analyze the reasons
This reason can actually be divided into two aspects , that is, subjective and objective.
From a subjective level, people just don’t like you for no reason.
But if it is an objective reason, we really have to take it seriously.
For example, do your education, income level, consumption habits, friends circle, etc. match?
You also have to consider whether it is time to improve yourself?
I don’t have enough academic qualifications, can I improve it? The income is not high, so let’s find reasons to continue working hard. If every rejection is due to bad luck, it might end the same next time, what do you think?
2 .Improve yourself
After being rejected, if you still pursue it, it will only be thankless and even make the other party more disgusted. Therefore, after being rejected by a girl, I suggest you take a break and spend your time improving yourself.
If we work hard, we can earn more money, if we study hard, we can gain more skills, and if we cultivate hobbies, we can gain happiness. Don’t you think this kind of life is not pleasant?
In fact, Becoming good is never for others, because in this process, you are the one who will truly feel happy. As for other things you gain, they are just accessories of your efforts.
3. Contact again as a friend
When you are good enough, she will contact you again. Your relationship is not about you chasing her, but about you attracting her. At this point you are in the dominant position.
Then you get along with her as a friend and gradually deepen the relationship. Isn’t it a matter of course? At this time, there is no need to be restrained anymore. You can invite her out openly. Meet.
Regarding invitations, the best way to improve the success rate is to start with the other person’s hobbies.
For example, if the other person likes to sing, you can organize a game and invite her to KTV and let her sing to her heart's content. Of course, she will be in a better mood.
Or if she wants to relax, you can ask her to go to the amusement park. With so many exciting games, her heart rate for you will definitely be higher, and it will look like a date between friends. , but this good impression spread quietly.
