In fact, if we observe carefully whether a girl likes a boy, we can still feel it. Many boys clearly feel that the girl likes them, and they feel that it is a sure thing to confess or pursue them at this time. Unexpectedly, the girl deliberately avoids it. Avoiding you and not giving you a chance, why is this? Let’s analyze it below: Girls obviously like me but they run away from me. What’s the reason for this?
1. Because of low self-esteem
Many times, although a girl likes a boy, she shrinks back when the boy shows her affection. Why, because the girl has low self-esteem. Many girls feel that they don’t look good enough or pretty enough, and they worry that boys won’t like themselves if they are not good enough. And for many girls with low self-esteem, they will inevitably shy away from the boys they like, always worried and afraid, so even if they find that they like each other, they can't help but run away, maybe she thinks you will never Maintain a good impression of her instead of abandoning her after discovering her faults, which will hurt her even more.
2. Insecurity
Some girls have problems due to growth factors or previous relationship experiences. She has no sense of security, is afraid of getting hurt, and has a strong self-esteem. She doesn't want to be the first person to say love. In the hearts of girls who are insecure, if she likes someone who doesn't like her and shows it, she will feel that her self-esteem has been hurt after being rejected, and she will feel that you are laughing at me, and everyone around her may know it too. Laughing at her. Rather than being laughed at by you, so she would rather avoid the person she likes than give you a chance to hurt her. She would rather not start or be hurt.
3. Girls don’t trust you
Although some girls like a boy, they may also She doesn't believe that this boy will like her, or that her character will not be happy even if she is with a boy. The reason may be that girls have heard about some shortcomings of boys, such as being a scumbag and hurting an infatuated girl. Or a girl may have seen with her own eyes that the boy she likes is very close to other girls, and if she doesn't keep her distance from other girls, she won't believe that such a boy will like her. So she has been avoiding your pursuit. She is also afraid that she will be with someone she shouldn't love, or that she will be wrong.
Summary: But if you and a girl really like each other, no matter whether the girl clearly likes me but runs away, boys need to be brave. A little, let her know your thoughts. If she feels safe enough, she will probably respond to you. It is best to find out what girls are avoiding. If it is something that cannot be changed at present, I hope you can consider it carefully.I wonder if we want to continue. If there is something that can be changed, then stay with her and let her trust you.
