In our Chinese traditional concepts, people should get married and have children when they reach a certain age, but now more and more people born in the 1990s are unwilling to get married even if they are not young anymore. What is the reason for this? ?
Why are more and more people born in the 1990s unwilling to get married?
The education level received by those born in the 1990s has generally become higher
Since the education level received by those born in the 1990s is now generally higher As you become taller, as your horizons increase, you will have your own insights and opinions on many things, especially on self-awareness. You have plans for your life, and marriage is not among these plans. Some people born in the 1990s said that marriage is even a burden to them.
2. The post-90s generation yearns for freedom more
Nowadays, the post-90s generation is more eager for freedom. Even if they meet the right person, they do not want to be bound by marriage, because once they enter the marriage, they will It means that you are troubled by the trivial matters of life, and you are tied up without self. You have to think about your family, and getting married means taking responsibility, which means you have to contribute to the entire family, and you are no longer alone.
3. The failed marriages of parents and friends left a shadow
There are also some people born in the 1990s who watched When my parents or friends' marriages failed, I had the mentality of giving up. Seeing that they were more unhappy in their marriage, had more quarrels, and were more stressed, I would inevitably feel afraid. If this was what the marriage was like, it would be better to have a lifelong relationship without getting involved in so many trivial matters. There is no need to think about how to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and there is no need to worry about when the other party will cheat.
4. Haven’t met the right person in my heart
This is also the main reason why many people born in the 1990s do not get married. In the final analysis, it depends on whether you have met your sweetheart. Once you meet your sweetheart, you are actually willing to be trapped in marriage for him. After all, marriage is the palace of love and the destination of love. Therefore, they wait more patiently and persist.
