Although most boys tend to find a girl who is younger than themselves, there is no guarantee on emotional matters. Maybe the girl you like is older than you. At this time, do you give up because of age? What? However, chasing a girl who is older than you may be considered naive by girls, so how should you chase a girl who is older than you?
1. The psychology of girls rejecting boys who are younger than themselves
I am a girl. I once chatted with a boy who was younger than me and said that I did not like boys younger than me, but I actually liked that boy. I was tempted, but I said it anyway. So the editor is here to analyze the psychology of girls rejecting boys younger than themselves. I hope it will be of some help to you.
1. Unstable. I don’t know how long I will stay in this city. I might leave this year, next year, or stay for another 4 years. I’m not sure at all. The boy is studying for his undergraduate degree and has two years to graduate. I have no idea where he will go after graduation. This uncertainty makes me feel unsafe.
2. I don’t want to ruin the current relationship. Since there are too many uncertainties, and I have a good impression of the other person, I don't want to break this level of friendship. Although it is a pity, at least we can hang out together openly and we will always be friends in the future.
3. My own reasons. I talked with my ex for a long time. I think my ex was also a very good person. However, we broke up due to my own immaturity and various reasons. Now I feel that it would have been better if we had just been friends. At least we are still friends now. Therefore, the time is not particularly ripe now, and I don’t want to enter into a relationship easily because the previous breakup experience was too painful. This also reinforces the first and second reasons.
4. Stress it to yourself. Then why do I have to tell him that I don’t like boys younger than me? In fact, I am telling myself and emphasizing to myself: The possibility between you is too small. Please control your feelings and keep status quo relationship. Telling him is to prevent him from really liking me (actually, I am not sure that he likes me. I think he has flirted with me, but I am not sure). It is also good for him to want him to stop and stop the loss in time.
5. I feel cool when I say this. Maybe you think I'm pretentious because I'm older than him, so I really want to appear mature. I feel like I know what I want when I say this, and I'm very mature. But no.
2. How to chase girls who are older than you?
If you really like the girl who is older than you Girls, don't care what she says. Words are the most inefficient way of communication. Contact her more and invite her to play together. Girls all know that girls of the same age are more mature than boys, let alone boys younger than themselves. but if youIf you can show your love for her, your shining points, your stability and responsibility, the problem is definitely not your age. If she accepts most of your invitations to hang out, it means she has a crush on you. If you really like it, don't back down so easily.
