Many boys think that if you want to pursue a girl, you have to care about her and be nice to her, so many boys can't help but greet the girl they are pursuing, thinking that this will make the girl feel good about them. But what is the reality? What do girls think when faced with a boy's greetings? Is it appropriate to chase a girl and greet her every day?
1. Asking questions may annoy girls
When chasing girls, remember that this is pursuit, which means that the two of you do not have too much of a relationship. In fact, the relationship is more than a couple. Friends, classmates, colleagues, acquaintances, what do these relationships mean? It means that you are two relatively independent people. As a friend, I can greet you, but I can't interfere too much in girls' lives. To put it simply, you can point out my life, but you can’t point fingers.
Excessive greetings are not a good thing. If you always greet a girl when you are chasing her, for example, if a girl is sick, let her know more. Drink water, ask girls not to stay up late and go to bed early, ask girls not to go home too late, ask girls to wear more clothes and not freeze when the temperature drops... It seems that you care about girls, but we are all adults, what should we do? Don’t girls know? My parents talk about this every day, which is very annoying sometimes, let alone an outsider talking about it.
2. Asking questions every day will invade your life
Excessive care in the process of chasing girls will make girls feel very uncomfortable and think that this is invading their lives. In fact, every day Everyone has their own lifestyle. No one can guarantee that these lifestyles are beneficial to health, but they just like it. What's more, in the consciousness of girls, there may be "Who are you, you don't care about so much", you Things that you don't like are common among others. Gradually, girls will regard you as a burden. Who wants to be with someone who is uncomfortable with you. At the same time, it will also give people a signal that you are a very boring and uninteresting person.
We all like to be with interesting people, because it is very interesting, especially girls. In terms of sensibility, compared with In real life, people tend to imagine their dream life, and you let her realize it in advance before she enters her life. For girls, you may be a careful and pragmatic person, but it is definitely not what you want. The one who hopes.
Girls may be more yearning for someone who can be crazy together and ignore everything, but they can also listen and comfort. Whatever the relationship is, it’s all about pursuing it, right? Go out and play together, catch up with each other, talk about life and ideals, share art and discuss stars, take her to do things she has never done before, take her to experience new places Feeling, I don’t believe girls wouldn’t be touched. Instead of focusing on the details of life, most people like to drink drinks, which are harmful to the body, but girls have taste. After their taste buds are satisfied, girls will not mind drinking plain water, becauseBecause plain water is not as stimulating as drinks but it is good for the body. Some people may like plain water, but many people drink plain water as soon as they come up, and girls will not adapt to it.
