If you feel that your relationship is becoming less and less passionate and sweet than before, it may be that you have reached the running-in period of your relationship. The following is a detailed analysis of the performance of couples in the running-in period of love? And how should couples spend the falling-in period?
Performance of the love running-in period
1. Opinions will not be raised directly
During the sweet period of love, both lovers will raise any ideas they have. , and the other party will accept it humbly. After the relationship is in the running-in period, even if two people put forward their own opinions, the other party may not necessarily accept them, and may even feel impatient. As time goes by, the two sides will not put forward any opinions or suggestions directly. They either keep it in their hearts or hope that the other party can understand it on their own!
But in fact, many times your thoughts are not understood by the other party. This is why many couples are prone to emotional problems during the running-in period of love. reason. Maybe the thing itself is very small, just small things like eating, shopping, watching movies, etc., but many boys are careless, while many girls have their own ideas but don't express them directly in their hearts, which makes them unable to get through the running-in period of love. In fact, it is What a pity.
So how should boys avoid breaking up during the running-in period of love because girls don’t express their opinions directly? It's actually very simple, you just need to be careful. For example, if you have a date with a girl for dinner, you open the door for the girl when you enter the restaurant, hold a bench for the girl when you are seated, ask for the girl's opinion when ordering, etc. These seemingly inconspicuous little details are actually done by girls. Very important point.
2. Girls will have a lot of little emotions.
Maybe boys are better, but girls will have a lot of little emotions during the running-in period of love. Because two people fall in love from familiarity to unfamiliarity. At the beginning, everyone can tolerate each other because of the novelty, but as the understanding deepens, each other's problems will be exposed, and at this time, they will not be as tolerant to each other as before. But even if a girl has something to say about you, she won't say it outright. Instead, she chooses to keep these things in her heart silently.
But girls will have small emotions inside if they hold it in their hearts for a long time, so some boys find that what you were originally talking about She was fine, but she suddenly changed her face and became cold to you, which made you confused and you didn't know where she was offended. This is actually a manifestation of the running-in period of love. At this stage, girls will have a sense of balance in their hearts, and even the smallest thing will break this balance. And boys will also feel aggrieved. They have done nothing wrong, so why should they be angered? They are not willing to continue to tolerate girls' little tempers. This is the time when conflicts are most likely to arise.
In this case, if you want to successfully get through the running-in period of love, it is best for two peopleLet's talk openly and honestly, instead of everyone secretly guessing and not talking.
