When getting along with friends of the opposite sex, there are some things you can say and things you can do, but there are some things you cannot say and some things you cannot do. These things that cannot be said or done can be called taboos when getting along with friends of the opposite sex. When interacting with friends of the opposite sex, you must be careful to avoid it, otherwise it may cause the other person to "overthink" and develop into an uncontrollable emotional state.
1. Don’t speak too flirtatiously, and don’t behave too coquettishly, otherwise it will easily arouse the feelings of some innocent noobs. When you give the other person some possibility of admiration, it can easily lead to the other person's out-of-control infatuation.
2. Don’t contact too much, otherwise it will easily lead to friends of the opposite sex becoming very curious about you. If you don’t want to fall in love with the other person, then you should control the frequency of contact to a certain level. Within the range, once you go beyond this range, you may even fall into it.
3. There is nothing wrong with giving some ordinary small gifts between friends. If you are friends of the opposite sex, you should avoid giving some gifts. Although it is just an unintentional act, there will always be people who think about it and stimulate it. After a person's love, it is difficult to end.
4. When getting along with friends of the opposite sex, just interact openly and normally, don’t make it look like working underground Likewise, private dates and flirting are undesirable behaviors, as they can easily make the other person mistakenly think that you want to fall in love.
5. The relationship between opposite-sex friends should always stay at the friendship stage, but if you ask about the other person’s relationship history, the emergence of this idea will release an ambiguous signal - making the other person think that you want to To develop further.
6. Friends are friends. Don’t care too much about the existence of other members of the opposite sex around the other person. Sometimes a caring tone will make the other person mistakenly think that you are jealous. This misplaced understanding will obviously affect the other two people. All felt embarrassed.
7. Everyone has shortcomings. If you suffer from obsessive-compulsive disorder and insist on the other person correcting certain shortcomings, then this stubborn temperament will either make the other person stay away from you, or make the other person fall in love with you. Fuck you.
8. It is possible for friends of the opposite sex to develop into lovers. If you don’t want to fall in love with the other person, don’t release it. This possibility - such as making pornographic jokes, so people often say "If you don't love me, why are you flirting with me?"
9. Proper physical contact is the key to getting along with friends of the opposite sex. If you are just an ordinary friend, don't kiss the other person. The behavior in this case is synonymous with "scum" and "bitch".
10. Friends also need a certain degree of self-esteem, especially friends of the opposite sex.You need to respect each other's privacy. If you are very concerned about the privacy of your friends of the opposite sex, then you are probably in love with them.
