Dating is a traditional way of marriage and love, and with the popularity of social networks, WeChat has become one of the important tools for people to communicate. Whether it is normal to ask for photos on WeChat has become a controversial topic during blind dates. This issue will be discussed below from different angles.
1. The need to protect privacy
It is reasonable for some people to ask for photos on WeChat when they have not met in person. After all, before you actually have contact with the other person, you can get a preliminary understanding of the other person's appearance and characteristics through photos, thereby avoiding wasting time and energy on people you are not interested in. Photos can also help people judge whether the other person meets their own criteria for choosing a mate.
2. Photos may be misleading
However, there are also some problems when asking for photos on WeChat for a blind date without meeting in person. . Photos do not fully represent a person's true image. Many people choose the best photos to show themselves, modify their appearance or use tools such as filters to beautify them. In this way, the other party may be misled by the photos, resulting in a situation where expectations are inconsistent with reality.
Focusing too much on photos may overlook other, more important factors. The purpose of dating is to find a suitable partner, and appearance is only part of it. Personality, hobbies, values, etc. can better determine whether two people are compatible. If you focus too much on photos, you risk overlooking these important aspects.
3. Difficulties in establishing trust
Requesting photos on WeChat for a blind date without meeting in person may also lead to difficulties in establishing trust. Before actually meeting each other, judging whether the other person is reliable through photos can easily lead to misunderstandings. Because photos cannot reveal a person’s personality and charm, it’s not fair to judge someone based on photos alone. In this way, it will be difficult for both parties to establish a real trust relationship.
4. Find a balance point
To sum up, there are advantages and disadvantages to asking for photos on WeChat when dating without meeting. In order to avoid being misled by photos, both parties can learn more about each other's inner qualities during communication and try to avoid paying too much attention to appearance. At the same time, it is important to find a balance between protecting privacy and building trust. Both parties can gradually build trust by communicating with each other, and then decide whether to exchange photos.
It is normal to a certain extent to ask for photos on WeChat when dating without meeting, but you need to pay attention to the possible misleading caused by photos and the difficulty of establishing trust. Only on the basis of balancing various factors can we have a better blind date and find a suitable partner.
