Due to personality reasons, introverts don’t know how to get along with girls. Even if they have good personal conditions, they have always been single, so they have no choice but to embark on the road of blind date. How should introverts go on a blind date? What?
1. How do introverts get on a blind date
1. Say hello
Start by saying hello. The first step for introverts when going on a blind date is to start by saying hello. You can choose a time, such as morning or noon, to send a greeting to the other party. I don’t know how to speak, but I can type easily, and I’m not nervous. With the first step, the next step will be much easier. If the other person can respond to your greeting in time, you can talk about other topics.
2. Take the initiative to open the topic
You can talk about recent work events and ask the other person’s opinion , in order to understand whether your three views are suitable. You can ask the other person what happy things they have encountered recently, and express that you look forward to participating with them. You can talk about some relatively simple topics, or topics that are easy to answer, and don’t need to be too complicated. You need to get used to it, this is a simple chat, and treat the person as an ordinary person. Once you are familiar with the conversation, you don’t have to be too formal about your language. If you talk in an official manner and the other party answers in an official manner, there will be no progress.
3. Be an action person
When dating, if you really can’t express it in words, then use actions to express it. You can express it through some small actions during a blind date, such as helping her open the door, pull a chair, pick up things, ward off bugs, etc. Only when the two parties on a blind date are in contact with each other can there be good development. Therefore, the failure of a blind date may not necessarily be because of your introversion. It may be that the other person did not like you in the first place. Don’t blame yourself, don’t give up on yourself, and continue to prepare for the next blind date.
2. Do I need to contact you every day after the blind date?
No.
Although whether the blind date can be successful depends on the contact situation in the next two weeks. However, if you contact someone every day, it is likely to bore the other person.
So, it would be nice to have time to contact each other occasionally. If you have time, you can invite the other person to meet again. You don’t necessarily need to chat on WeChat. Because the purpose of this stage is to allow everyone to see their own personality and interests, so that the other party can understand themselves better.
If the man and woman on a blind date want to have contact with each other after two weeks of frequent contact, congratulations. You will hopefully be in a relationship. However, we can’t keep putting it off. We need to push forward as early as possible to confirm the relationship. Generally speaking, women who meet through blind dates must confirm their relationship within 3 months. If you don't do that, the other person may treat you as a normal friend. Then, the two sides entered anotherA blind date process. After all, a blind date is just a form of getting to know each other, and no one needs to wait for you all the time.
