After breaking up with my ex, I thought that we would never see each other again. Unexpectedly, one day my ex came and asked to get back together. Should I agree to this situation?
1. Review the reasons for the breakup
The first thing to do is to review the breakup. What exactly caused everyone to part ways? Was it because of one party's disloyalty or misunderstanding? If there is no big principle, you can give the other party another chance. After all, there is a certain emotional foundation. But if it is because of deception, violence, infidelity, etc., then there is nothing to say and resolutely block all the other party’s information!
2. Weigh the pros and cons
When you want to turn back, you must carefully weigh it to see whether it is good or bad. The advantage is like getting back together after a broken mirror, with a deeper understanding and less restraint; the disadvantage is like the pressure of public opinion, and whether the same mistakes will be repeated. We should think carefully and then respond to the other party.
3. Check the sincerity of the other party
Since the other party wants to get back together, there must be a certain degree of sincerity. At least ask me out, find a classy place, and have a nice talk. As long as you can untie the knots of past breakups, getting back together won't be difficult. What I hate the most is people who have no courage and find others to do the work for them. There are also people who give up when they are rejected! Falling in love again is inherently a test. You must have enough courage and sincerity. If you don’t give up until you achieve your goal, you will not succeed!</ p>
4. Have you let go of all your hatred?
After a relationship ends, hatred will indeed arise. But if you want to get back together again, you should let go of the hatred in your heart. Some people will take extreme actions and agree to their ex's request to get back together, not for the sake of living a good life, but for revenge. They must get rid of the other person to make up for their own trauma. This kind of behavior is not only too childish, but will also make you fall into deep self-blame. It hurts each other and makes you feel uncomfortable too, why bother!
5. Have you grown?
If you After going through a breakup, you must grow up and mature! Don’t be as childish and impulsive as before! The fact of breaking up is not wealth, the reflection of breakup is the wealth of life! Both each other and we should learn something from the breakup, that is Respect each other, respect each other. If we don't reflect at all, it won't be helpful to get back together in love.
