Nowadays, the security community is quite large. Security guards can be found basically everywhere in communities, guard offices, shopping malls, and there are also quite a few young men among them, and they look very eye-catching when paired with uniforms. But did you know that many security guards can’t find girlfriends? What’s the reason?
Why can’t I find a girlfriend when I am a security guard?
1. The threshold for becoming a security guard is relatively low
The entry requirements for security guards are low, and everyone in junior college or technical secondary school has a class, which solves the problem of employment difficulties for young people. But if you work as a security guard for a few years in your most precious youth. In your most precious years, you neither made any money, nor learned any skills, nor did you have any development. This kind of work can be done by 60-year-olds or 20-year-olds. There is no accumulation at all and it is just a matter of youth. If you choose this way, you will definitely regret it in the future.
There is no future or hope in this industry. When I chatted with my colleagues at that time, everyone expressed their attitude towards life of just eating and waiting to die, but you were obviously still so young. Then you said that with your attitude towards life, how can any girl really want to be with you and continue a life with no hope for the future? And girls with good conditions will think that security guards are worthless. Don’t think about how good your future marriage partner is.
2. The salary of security guards is relatively low
The work of security guards is generally not high and can generally only satisfy daily needs. In life, if you want to save money to buy a house or something, it’s basically impossible. Nowadays, girls are generally required to buy a house when they get married (buying a car is not a mandatory requirement). If you want to rely on your salary as a security guard to realize your wish to buy a house, it is basically impossible. I can only say that if you are living a difficult life and really can't find a good job, you can make a temporary transition. In other words, it is a good choice for you to find a promising job first, complete your initial accumulation, and then consider becoming a security guard after you start a family and grow old.
3. The social circle of security guards is very small
If you choose to be a security guard, you will be gossiped about by many people. It has a huge impact on your social circle. Moreover, the daily social circle is basically composed of security guards, and there is no access to any female resources. Even if there are, they are like cleaning ladies, so it is difficult to find a girlfriend.
Summary: As a young person, you must choose a promising job. People should take a long-term view. Without accumulation, without any skills, and just relying on coolies in society, the final outcome will be to be eliminated. Doing some simple and repetitive things all day long, and looking at the end at a glance, how can you be successful in this life? It’s okay to want to be a security guard, but it’s more appropriate to wait until you retire or become a security guard when you are old.
