When you first fall in love, both parties may be extremely passionate. As long as they are together, there will be endless things to say and do. But after a long time, it will feel a bit boring. Maybe boys are okay and can find something to do on their own to balance these points. It's different for girls. She may complain to you that she's bored. So how do you respond to your girlfriend saying she's bored?
1. Your girlfriend thinks you are boring
The reason why your girlfriend thinks you are boring is because she dislikes you being boring and will not flirt with her. At this time, you have to coax your girlfriend. How to coax her? Just be likable, and if that doesn't work, buy what she likes, accompany her to do the things she likes, try more, and there will always be one thing that can make her happy. No matter you want to be a clown or a gentleman, you can always come up with new tricks. If it doesn't work, just take him out to eat and hang out. Careful and gentle care is also ok.
2. My girlfriend is too idle
Another possibility that my girlfriend feels bored is that she is too idle , I feel bored when I am not fulfilled. For example, your girlfriend quit her job and has no job at home, so she has nothing to do every day and wants her boyfriend to chat on the phone and accompany her all the time. Even if you keep talking to her, she still feels dissatisfied. In this case, you need to find something for your girlfriend to do. With a job and everyone having their own things to do, this situation won't happen. Find her something to do. For example, if a relative's child is struggling, let her experience it; for example, if a friend is moving and sends her to do hard work; for example, if someone is recruiting volunteers or volunteers, sign her up... When you are tired, you have no time to be bored. .
3. My girlfriend feels that love is boring
In the process of love, it is easy for my girlfriend to feel bored. Yes, they expect boys to bring them a different life and different experiences. When your girlfriend says she is bored to death, the correct answer at this time should be "What, she was bored to death, when did she die, I want to go have a drink," or "Oh, it is said that his brother is "helpless" and is dying. , I guess he’s about to die, how about we take some time to see him?”
“Haha, I don’t want to see him”
“Then, Second Senior Brother, incompetent , we can’t forget it. I think he didn’t have any merit in the journey of learning, but his hard work still paid off? "This place uses role-playing.
Then, just talk to her as far as you want. When you talk like this, will she still be bored? ! At this moment, she must be thinking, this guy has a sense of humor!
Of course, when your girlfriend says she is bored, she may just want to hear your voice and want to know what you are doing. How are you doing recently? Are you concerned about her?I miss her. Also, if you feel something is wrong in your love life after your girlfriend said she was bored, the two of you must communicate well. Don't think about things on your own and end up with misunderstandings. Communication is very important!
