Girlfriends are very emotional. Many times, some inadvertent little things can easily make her angry. In this case, as her boyfriend, you need to make her happy and help her get rid of bad things. In the mood. Below, the editor will teach you some tricks to make your girlfriend happy.
1. Empathy
If the word empathy It may be difficult to explain to you directly, so I will use an example to explain it to you:
When your girlfriend is in a bad mood because she has an quarrel with her parents, you can say to her: "What's your trouble?" I have also experienced it, and I am still deeply involved in it. My parents also think they are "good for me", but they also restrict me from doing many things, and I have had several quarrels. To be honest, I really don't want to quarrel with them. After every quarrel, I It’s quite uncomfortable. I feel guilty and wronged at the same time.”
The function of saying this is to let her understand that she has had the same experience as you, so that you can do this in the same mood. The effect is to make your girlfriend feel that you can understand her. After saying this, your girlfriend may be silent for a while, or she may reply to you: "Yes~", and then we will talk about the next comfort steps.
2. Understand
You continue to say to your girlfriend:
"Later Thinking about it, my parents are getting older and it is unrealistic to change their ideas, so I still make my own decisions on many things. Later, my parents and I came to understand each other, and my parents were just nagging, because if they were. If you don’t nag, we may simply ignore them. They all need to love and be loved.”
This is a reply that is understood. Tell your girlfriend that you are a filial man and that you respect your parents. He is also a man with his own opinions. This kind of comfort is not only comfort, but also charm and value output.
3. Transfer
The so-called transfer is to transfer the unhappy emotions of your current girlfriend, so you You can say: "Seeing that you are so sad, let me go with you to have a delicious meal~". If your girlfriend can drink, then you can add "You are allowed to drink a little this time~" after this sentence.
Of course, whether she goes or not is another matter. This is not the point. The point is that if she goes, you will advance the relationship very well.
Why do you say this?
First of all, because your girlfriend is in a bad mood at this time, the way we comforted her can already make her feel that you understand her well, are charming and charming The story told the man, which invisibly increased the attraction. Secondly, "drink"This method can increase the interactivity of the meeting.
Many boys make an emotional trash can when their girlfriends are in a bad mood and just listen to their girlfriends vent. In fact, this is wrong, because your girlfriend will tell you that she is in a bad mood. , that means I hope you can comfort yourself.
So, what we need to do is to provide her with more emotional value in the chat to make her like you more.
