Everyone is an independent individual with his own ideas and lifestyle. Many couples come together because of the same lifestyle. For example, some couples who get married and do not plan to have children, what are these groups generally called? , can such a marriage last long?
1. What is marriage without children?
Marriage These groups who do not have children are generally called DINKs.
DINK comes from the English Double income no
Kids, from the abbreviation of their initials, the abbreviation of Dink, is also called the Dink family. According to our Chinese explanation, it is those who have the ability to have children, but choose not to have children. It may be subjective or other objective reasons. People who passively choose not to have children.
This group of people are not bound by traditional concepts. They do not believe that marriage is for the purpose of carrying on the family line, so they do not plan to have children in their married life. They like freedom very much and do not like restrictions, regardless of Whether it is people or various things, if you are restricted too much, your freedom will be restricted. Children are the biggest factor that can restrict adult freedom. At the same time, many people also think that children are particularly troublesome. When they see other people’s families raising children that are very difficult and noisy, they feel a sense of disgust in their hearts.
2. Can a marriage without children last?
It is difficult to get married without children. long.
We often say that children are the link of a marriage, a relationship, and its important pillars, that is, love economy and reproduction. These three are the most important. From the shape point of view, a triangle is also The most stable one, if it is maintained only by love and finance, it seems to be okay, but in fact its adhesion is not strong. Although love is great, it is also very ethereal.
The lifestyle of a family without children is too casual. Children are an important fetter. Conflicts between extramarital affairs and the original family may cause various problems. Therefore, before deciding on DINK, you must Make a plan for your own family planning and personal growth. Don't think that just because you don't have children, you are like a child who will never grow up.