Many boys don’t have the correct method when chasing girls, so that until girls turn from enthusiasm to coldness, they don’t know what went wrong. Today, the editor has summarized the 3 most taboo points about chasing girls. , see if you have made any of these mistakes.
1. Blindly please
It is normal to chase girls and give them gifts, but the more you give, the more The more you do, the higher your expectations are. You always feel that as long as you reach the top, she will be able to be with you.
Let’s not talk about whether it is right for this girl to always accept gifts unconditionally. As you stay here for a long time, you may encounter girls who are cold to you a few times, and your mentality will collapse.
By the time you adjust your mentality and prepare to continue your efforts, the girl has actually gained the upper hand in this relationship, and suddenly one day you will be confused: Have I become a bitch?
In fact, when giving gifts, you should choose some special days and put some thought into it. Giving her some sense of ceremony will make the gift meaningful. The gift itself should not be too expensive, so that she will not feel pressured.
2. No opinion
Think about it, ask a friend you don’t know very well: You Do you think these shoes look good? He says they look good. You ask him if the game is fun? He says it’s fun. You ask him if it’s easy to learn how to cook? He says it’s easy to learn.
If you ask him, he will say yes to everything. This person has no ideas and opinions of his own. Do you want to continue to be friends with him? In turn, do the same to the girl you like, she I don't want to be friends with you either.
In fact, if you act more assertive, girls will think that you are very mature and reliable, and that you are a boy who can give her a sense of security.
3. Suspicion
The girl I like recently posted a photo of going out in the circle of friends. You directly commented, "Where have you been? Why are you still running around during this time?"
Maybe you were just out of concern, but the girl thought, I just went downstairs to breathe, and I was at the door of the community. Buy groceries, buy some snacks, etc. Of course I know not to run around. We are all adults, so you don’t need to teach me.
Back when you could run around in the past, maybe if a girl sent a photo of a few people clinking glasses at a bar, you would be even more nervous, and you would tell them: It’s evening, don’t drink too much.
Then I wanted to ask who she was with. When a girl doesn't like you that much, if you do this, don't blame the girl for being ungrateful, because it's really annoying to be asked and told all the time, and she will also think that you are nagging and like to make random guesses. I will become less and less fond of you.
In fact, no one likes to be educated. It is not okay to be controlled. I think it is not okay to do this or that., People only live a lifetime. Apart from not doing anything illegal and disciplined, there are so many things that cannot and should not be done.
