Whether it is love or marriage, loyalty to the other half is a quality that must be maintained. So when you find that your girlfriend has lost her loyalty and is having an affair with someone else, should you forgive her?
1. The psychology of your girlfriend’s ambiguity with others
1. Your girlfriend’s personality is like this< /p>
If your girlfriend is having an affair with other boys, it shows that she either lacks love or loves excessively. And she already has you, so the first possibility can be ruled out directly.
And the fact that she chooses to be ambiguous with someone other than you can only mean that she likes the feeling of being ambiguous with other boys. Sometimes, as long as it is a boy she can see, she will There will be chatting about whether or not we are dating. It shows that her personality is like this. What may seem ambiguous to you is normal to her.
2. Your girlfriend doesn’t love you very much
If your girlfriend loves you very much, she will definitely not have an affair with others, but it is also possible that she just likes to play. , I will come back to you when I have had enough fun. But I have to say that even a man cannot stand this kind of behavior.
3. Revenge mentality
If you don’t pay attention to keeping a distance from other girls, it often makes you Your girlfriend feels angry and jealous, but you take it for granted and don't pay attention to it. Then your girlfriend is likely to have an affair with other boys, making you feel jealous too. In this case, your girlfriend just wants you to think differently and you might change.
2. Should you forgive your girlfriend if you find her having an affair with someone else?
If you find your girlfriend is having an affair with someone else, if you let it go, it is better to let it go as soon as possible. Although you trust her now, After this incident has passed and there are disturbances, you will think that everything is a conspiracy. This may be too extreme. The most important thing when two people are together is trust. This kind of trust is not blind trust. Blind trust will only make you distort or even doubt the facts.
Therefore, if you are still reluctant to let go of your girlfriend and have a good talk with her, your girlfriend’s attitude determines your attitude towards her. If your girlfriend just blindly avoids this problem, and You've also expressed to her your dissatisfaction with her friend's behavior, and that's up to you.
If you love her more than you love yourself, and you have reached the point where you can't leave, in other words, if you leave and find ways to get back together, In this situation, you'd better accept your fate, try to adapt yourself to such a thing, and firmly believe that your girlfriend and the boy are just pure friendships.
If you love her but this thing is more important than your love for her, then let it go. If she loves you, she will understand,Will definitely come back to you.
Regardless of men and women, you should keep a distance from the opposite sex after falling in love. This is not only for the good of your partner, but also a sign of responsibility for yourself, and is one of the foundations of a long-term relationship.
