I don’t know if you have ever encountered such a situation. When you are with your partner, you will always quarrel over some trivial matters. Once or twice is fine, but frequent quarrels will make you suspicious. Is this problem caused by inappropriateness? Today, the editor will share my own opinion on the question "Why do two people always quarrel when they are together?"
My personal point of view is: quarreling does not mean it is inappropriate. There is no couple who does not quarrel, but it does not mean that you are What's a good fit ultimately comes down to where the two of you are willing to take this relationship, so it's ultimately up to you.
If you have quarrels when you get along, it means that there are still problems between you, and these problems have caused differences in communication between you, so there are quarrels. So we still need to pay attention to this issue.
In my opinion, when two people are together, they are not afraid of quarreling, but are afraid of not being willing to talk. If you have accumulated enough disappointment for one person, you will no longer have the energy to be angry or care about.
It’s not that I don’t want to talk, it’s just that I don’t want to be hurt anymore, so I deal with it again and again, and drift away.
What makes people give up is not time, but disappointment again and again.
What makes my heart unbearable is not waiting, but turning a blind eye again and again.
One person’s indifference will silence another person.
One person’s perfunctory behavior will make two people drift apart.
Your words of greetings and greetings only get the word "um".
Your joyful mood only resulted in a perfunctory expression.
No one can always warm a cold face with a hot heart.
No one can endure endless indifference and alienation all the time.
There are thousands of feelings in this world, none of which are taken for granted. Her incomprehension pushes you further.
Indifference makes people more desperate than quarrels, and contempt makes people more chilling than neglect.
When you are sad, you just need someone to rely on, but she doesn’t want to talk to you.
When you are depressed, you just want to be listened to, but she responds impatiently.
You talk a lot, but she talks coldly. You try to explain, but she talks sarcastically.
Her casual words can easily negate your efforts.
After understanding what she meant, I no longer wanted to disturb her, and I no longer had the motivation to continue.
Speak well and cherish it with your heart. Conflicts are not the grave of feelings, but the hurt of cold words is.
Don’t overestimate the endurance of any relationship.
Don’t have so many things that should be taken for granted and wantonfear.
Speak well and don’t hurt others! Cherish it with your heart and don’t miss it!
If your heart is cold, you will never go back. I hope there is someone in this life who will have endless things to say to you. If so, I will accompany you through thick and thin, and stay with you through thick and thin.
