In modern social networking, WeChat has become one of the most commonly used chat tools. But sometimes we encounter situations where some girls are unwilling to add WeChat, so what is the reason? How to get her to actively add WeChat? Let’s discuss it in detail below.
1. Security issues
For many girls, adding strangers on WeChat may cause security problems Problem concerns. After all, there are all kinds of scams and scams on the Internet, so girls are more likely to stay vigilant and not easily disclose their personal information to strangers.
2. Different social circles
Everyone has his or her own social circle. If you and a girl don’t have many common topics or friends, then she may feel that you are not in common with her. There is no need for you to add WeChat. Therefore, before establishing contact, you can first improve each other's understanding through other ways, such as attending the same event, joining the same interest group, etc.
3. Not interested in you
If a girl doesn’t have much interest in you, then she is unlikely to be willing to add WeChat with you. What needs to be noted at this time is that do not force the other party to add your WeChat account, as this will only make her more disgusted. On the contrary, you can use some natural methods to arouse her interest, such as showing your strengths, paying more attention to her life, etc.
So, if you want a girl to take the initiative to add you to WeChat, what should you do?
1. Establish common topics
When communicating with girls, try to find common topics and show your sincerity and enthusiasm. If you can make a girl feel that you care and understand her, then she will be more willing to establish a connection with you.
2. Express your affection appropriately
If you have a liking for a girl, you might as well express it appropriately. But what needs to be noted is not to be too direct or reckless, but to choose the appropriate method and timing according to the specific situation.
3. Provide help
If you can provide some useful help or suggestions, then girls will be more willing to keep in touch with you. For example, providing guidance in study, support in work, etc.
Girls may not be willing to join WeChat because of security issues, different social circles, or lack of interest in you. If you want girls to take the initiative to add you on WeChat, you can enhance mutual understanding by establishing common topics, expressing your affection appropriately, and providing help.
