Appearance is the "primary productive force" for boys when chasing girls, but not all boys are born with a good face. So if a boy doesn't have good looks, how should he chase girls?
1. Figure
In fact, girls really don’t just look at faces. A good figure and temperament are even more important than a good-looking face. Many small details in daily speech and behavior are the root cause of most people's body and posture defects. You can change these bad habits and improve your overall temperament.
First, keep your posture upright. When I was a child, I was often taught that there is a sitting posture and a standing posture. If someone listens to it, I will lose.
But when I grow up, I realize how important good posture is.
Just tell me, which one would you admire more, a person who is hunched over and gets paralyzed when he sits down, or a person who has an upright posture?
Second, Sports support. Nowadays, exercise is no longer just for health, it has quietly become a fashion.
The vest line, biceps, and abdominal muscles have basically become symbols of a man’s good figure.
2. Image enhancement
As the saying goes, Buddha relies on gold clothing, and people rely on clothing, just like establishing Just like your personality, matching clothing that suits you will also make your image characteristics clearer.
For example, if a person is young and sunny, the first impression is that he should be wearing a loose white T-shirt and sneakers; if a person is fashionable and handsome, the first impression should be a contrasting coat + white T-shirt + metal necklace, wearing loose clothes Overalls; to say that a person is artistic, it should be a plaid shirt and casual jeans; to say that a person is capable and handsome, it should be a suit and leather shoes...
Look, the atmosphere brought by the combination of clothing Feeling basically determines a person's style.
So what kind of atmosphere do you want to convey to others? You might as well try more of this type of outfit.
3. Create a social image
In social situations, what kind of people are most likely to stand out? Of course It has its own distinctive characteristics. They can be lively and talkative, or they can be mature and steady.
No matter what it is, as long as you are confident and true to yourself, there will always be people who match your magnetic field and will be attracted to you.
To create your own social image, there are a few things you need to remind everyone:
In the initial acquaintance stage, don’t overly reveal your favorable impression of the other person, just give some hints. Let her know that you pay attention to her, and at the same time focus on your own things. This is also a good time for you to show your charm.
4. Rich connotation
I have said so much before, but they are all about establishing the first impression, but in the final analysis, long-term contact and interaction, how can it stand without some connotation? What?
Every time I watch "Qi Pa Shuo", I have to sigh. These guests are so amazing. How much knowledge do they have in their heads to achieve such rigorous logic, such quick thinking, and such expression? Rigorous?
When the audience sighs like this, it means that their charm has been deeply rooted in people's hearts. Isn't this what we call the sense of atmosphere?
People with rich connotations are naturally confident. It is sufficient, and the temperament exuded will be more attractive. This kind of person can make people appreciate him more and more in a long-term relationship.
So, do you know what to do? Don’t just play games! Having said all that, do you think appearance is important? I don’t deny it. But not everything can be boiled down to that.
