I haven’t contacted a girl for a long time, and I suddenly want to restart the conversation. If I contact you suddenly, it would be very deliberate and embarrassing to start flirting directly. So how do I reopen the conversation and flirt with a girl I haven’t contacted for a long time? Where is she?
1. Have something to talk about
The first step is to reopen the topic Something to talk about.
Hi, hello, are you there?
Have you ever sent this to someone like this?
Did they not reply to you?
Or maybe they fell into silence after chatting for a few words?
< p> Please, since we already have contact information and have chatted for a while, not to mention how the chat goes, the relationship is at least better than that of strangers.Hello, hi. Doesn't this distance the relationship again? I believe that when we chat with our friends, we rarely start with "Hello".
Even if there is, there definitely needs to be some meaningful content added at the end.
For example, hello, send a link?
Of course, according to different people, the following content needs to be determined based on the actual situation.
This kind of opening is routine, not embarrassing, and has content to talk about.
2. Talk about the current situation
The second step, talk about the current situation, is the perfection of the first step. Replenish.
What can make the other party have something to talk about? Current life.
It is worth noting that the current life is to talk about each other, not yourself, which requires preparation in advance.
For example, usually pay attention to what content is posted in her circle of friends.
Then when starting a topic, you can first choose one of them and expand it.
She sent her travel photos, so you can discuss the local customs with her. Here's a little trick, it's easier to make her want to talk to us by asking than by introducing.
Everyone needs to be admired. Most people would rather be a knowledgeable "teacher" than a "student" with poor knowledge.
Therefore, we only need to pay attention to the other person's current life situation in private, choose a topic to start, and with appropriate guidance, she will be very willing to become a chatterbox.
Of course, there are also some people who don’t like to post updates, which results in us not being able to get in touch with each other’s current life situation.
We can also use common topics for girls to solve this current problem.
3. Know how to advance and retreat
After the above two steps, I believe everyone will let her continue the conversation. Not difficult.
At this time, it was veryMany friends were ecstatic that they were finally on the line, so most people couldn't hold it any longer and kept going.
The question is, have you ever thought that the rope holding the thread should be pulled slowly, otherwise it will be broken too quickly.
This is also why many friends are confused, why they chat with her okay but the conversation breaks down.
First, after finally getting on the line, I was too excited and said all the things that should be said and shouldn’t be said without thinking, and the result was that trouble came out of my mouth.
Secondly, she always wanted to chat day and night, chatting until we ran out of things to talk about, and ended up having to forcefully chat. Her originally good feeling towards us turned into "That's it." ”, collapse.
Therefore, you must know how to let nature take its course, stop it in moderation, don’t be too deliberate, maintain a normal attitude and talk to a girl about things she is interested in, and in the long run the relationship will become closer.
