Some boys chatted with girls on WeChat and the girls even agreed without hesitation as soon as they sent out invitations. But when it came time to meet him in reality, he immediately became frightened and even stammered when he spoke.
When talking about some of the things he has experienced, he always felt that he did not describe it well. The girl’s reaction made him feel like he was making it up. In a word: I was so nervous.
In order to prevent other brothers from making the same mistake, today, the editor will give you some answers. Boys are particularly good at chatting on WeChat. What causes cowardice and how to avoid this embarrassing situation.
1. Insufficient experience
When chatting with girls on WeChat, I can think and look it up if I don’t understand. In addition, I can’t see people through my mobile phone, so I feel more relaxed and can make jokes easily. Come on, be smart and shake your hands casually, just to make the stranger across the way feel good.
And if you lose your mobile phone during a meeting, your true self will be exposed and you will be embarrassed in real time. Therefore, meeting in real life is a test of your ability to adapt to changes. The most important thing is the ink in your belly and the emotional intelligence in your brain. Improving your experience is the best way.
2. Too little contact with girls
Sometimes I think, WeChat chat brings us Is social networking really that good? There is no doubt that the world today is intertwined with the Internet. Everyone leaves their connection with the world to the mobile phone in their hands. If you leave the mobile phone, you are basically cut off from the world. , living like an isolated island.
We feel that we don’t have resources of the opposite sex around us, but we still want to fall in love, so we resort to online social networking. Online social networking can broaden the scope of our friendships, but it cannot give us the depth of our friendships.
I don’t have the patience to explore a stranger. Once the other person shows something I don’t like, I will immediately turn around and leave. In real life, there is no opposite sex. resources, and too little contact with girls. There is no patience in online life, which is why you feel that love is getting harder and harder to get.
If you want to get love, you cannot avoid socializing, but if you want to get love more easily, it is better to socialize in reality. If there is no opposite sex around you, then go to a place with the opposite sex and travel. Go on an adventure and get to know interesting souls in real life. Otherwise, you will naturally become intimidated when you see a girl. Even if you can’t catch up with a girl through WeChat, what’s the point?
3. I can’t hold girls.
Another result of the development of the Internet is that people’s horizons have broadened. Both men and women are more liberated than people in the past.sex.
Girls have been oppressed by feudal ideas for thousands of years, which also makes some people still have gender prejudices against women. I feel that men are better than women, and I think that I, a grown man, can control a little girl.
But in fact, in today’s society where the value of brain-created labor is better, the strength of men and women can no longer be compared purely by physical strength. As long as you absorb knowledge, a girl with more social experience than you may have higher IQ. You crush.
If you want to be a woman in the elite class, you must be in the elite class among men. If you want to be admired by girls, you must have two brushes. Otherwise, without the help of Du Niang, then you I just can’t hold it in anymore, so I can only become cowardly. Therefore, faced with this situation, it is better to evacuate quickly, change the target, and flirt with a girl who is comparable to you.
