In love, what you use to attract people is the kind of person you attract. When you try to win a girl's heart by spending money, the girl will assume that you have money and are willing to spend it for her. Then the girl will like money more and more, and finally treat you as an ATM machine. So can spending more money on girls bring you sincerity? I think it's impossible. So how should you spend money chasing girls? Today I will share with you two methods. How can you use the least amount of money to chase the girl you like?
Can spending more money on girls bring you sincerity?
First, don’t regard feelings as Buying and selling
You have to buy the other person’s feelings from the beginning, especially at the beginning. If you try to use your money ability at the beginning to show that you provide material help to girls, you can buy a lot of things for girls and spend money. A girl will most likely feel disgusted by a lot of money. Even if a girl is happy or excited about it, then this relationship is destined to be a business. You pay and the other party contributes. If a girl is disgusted, there is only one main reason: you hurt her. Her self-esteem put a lot of psychological pressure on her.
You don’t consider how the other person will feel when she accepts it, so you just give it to the girl. If the girl doesn’t accept it, you still force the other person to accept it, saying that I don’t accept it, so I can only throw it in. If a girl takes so many benefits from you for no reason, this person will not be able to cope with it psychologically, and will feel that he owes you something. So you show that you are willing to buy things for girls. You think it is very sincere, but in fact it has no effect on most girls. They may even feel extremely stressed because they accept your gifts. I started to avoid you, let alone talk about committing myself to you.
Second point, spend money on small items and experiences
Spend money on girls Buying bags, clothes, cosmetics, etc. is not recommended. You will never empty a girl’s shopping cart, which will only make you more and more tired. First of all, the cost is too high, and even if you have the money to give away Once, what about next time? The standard of gift-giving will be restricted by these people. If you suddenly give something of lower value, girls will think that you have changed. Secondly, girls may not lack this thing at all, and unreasonable girls know that the price is too expensive. , I will feel sorry for myself. Therefore, spending money on services and experiences will avoid the problem of gift giving to a great extent. How should the money be spent?
1. First of all, give some meaning to the gift
Then even if the gift is not of high value, it is very easy, such as a bouquet of flowers or a box of chocolates on Valentine's Day. It can represent love. When the weather is cold, a scarf can also keep you warm. A baby can also represent care. Even a doll can represent companionship. Although the cost is not high, it shows that you have more heart and this gift is more valuable.significance.
2. Secondly, spend money on services and time
Of course, the premise is that you also To participate, just like eating and watching movies in general, it is actually an investment. In order to increase the shared memories of each other, there will be one more topic to talk about in the future. Of course, there are other similar things, such as doing crafts together. Taking photos together, going to the park together, etc., the cost is not too high, and it also gives you an extra time and memories to spend together. Apart from some embarrassment to society, it has no harm at all.
3. Finally, spend a small amount of money to do big things
When chasing girls, you must spend your money wisely and pursue girls with your true self, so that you can return someone who truly loves you. Don't make money your main concern, otherwise you will only spend more and more money.
