For a girl who doesn’t like you, no matter how hard you try, you will never be able to catch her up. If you continue to stalk her, you can easily become a bitch. Therefore, when chasing girls, we must also learn to stop chasing them. If we can’t catch up with girls after a month, should we still chase them?
Regarding this point, we can’t just base it on time, we must base it on the girl’s attitude towards her. Judge by your own attitude.
Under normal circumstances, if you pursue a girl and give her your heart and soul for three months or even longer, but she never responds and treats you with an indifferent attitude, it means you can give up. , because such a girl has not been in her heart for a long time, or you are simply not the type she likes, and you have not yet met her requirements in all aspects.
However, one month is still too short and not enough to see something, especially for those who are more cautious. For girls, if you only pursue her for a month, she may feel that the two parties do not understand each other well enough, so she cannot accept it yet.
Therefore, if you can’t catch a girl after a month, it doesn’t mean that you are out of luck. You can still try again. You might as well wait until three months.
Now, let me share with you some signs that it is completely useless to chase girls:
1. Always say Think about it
In relationships, there is such a role. We call it the "spare tire." In fact, when pursuing a girl you like, the length of time can’t express anything, but if you want to know whether a person likes you, time can prove everything to you. If you are pursuing a girl you like, you can’t wait to please her in every possible way. The kind that gives her your heart, but she always hangs on you and always says that she needs to think about it. In fact, to put it bluntly, she just doesn't like you and is using you as a spare tire.
2. Frequently disappearing
Love is a matter of mutual affection. A girl who really likes you doesn’t need to be chased for long, but if the girl’s thoughts If it's not with you and you don't have a good impression of you, then your pursuit has nothing to do with the length of time, because what moves a woman's heart is not how long you pursue her, but the number of times you impress her, how she feels about you. If you don't have any of these moments of interest, then the girl will naturally have no feelings for you, so she will always avoid you when she gets along with you, often disappear, and you can't always find her when something happens. , because she doesn’t want to have contact with you for a long time.
3. Accept you but don’t reject others at the same time
Some girls are easy to chase. She agrees to you after you confess her love. While you are excited, you will find that you actually don’t understand her at all.You are still in a semi-ignorant state about her affairs. She is obviously in love with you, but she will never refuse the initiative of the opposite sex. Therefore, when chasing a girl, whether you give up or not does not actually depend on time. It's about her attitude towards you. If she accepts you and won't reject other boys at the same time, it means that she doesn't have you in her heart at all, and there won't be any good results if you persist.
If a girl shows signs of appeal within a month of you pursuing her, it means that it is definitely impossible for you to pursue her, and I suggest you stop pursuing her.
