Many boys think that since they are chasing girls, they must show their sincerity. The more expensive the things they give, the better. It can not only show how much they value girls, but also show off their financial resources. That is Doesn’t it mean that the more expensive items you give to girls, the better? Is it appropriate to give valuables to a girl? Reality may not be the case.
1. It is better to give expensive gifts than to give girls what they like.
Gifts are either expensive or good. The important thing is to buy something that girls like, which is more expensive. If you can't buy what girls want at the same price, your efforts will be in vain. And when you first start courting girls, the price of gifts doesn’t need to be too high, but don’t be too low. Just give them tens of dollars, otherwise you won’t be able to give them to you next time. Anyway, your thoughts are more important!
Moreover, the key is whether the girl also likes you, she loves you, and she will like whatever you give her. She accepts them all. Giving her a nice gift is to express that you like her and put yourself in her shoes. In fact, many girls don’t necessarily want expensive ones. It's equally practical and beautiful, or you just like it. But if a girl doesn't like you, no matter how expensive a gift you give her, it may be in vain.
2. Sending valuables can easily put pressure on girls
Generally, well-educated girls will reciprocate the gifts they give to boys according to the value of the gifts at home. If you give a gift If it is too expensive, the girl will be very stressed if she wants to return the gift (it mainly depends on the financial conditions of both of you). Even if the girl likes you, she will stop thinking about it. She is also afraid that she will be in a weak position in the relationship in the future. .
For those girls who accept the gift regardless of its value, you need to worry about whether she is the one you should mention. The machine is ready. Don't give a lot of gifts when the time comes, but you don't get the love you want, then the gain outweighs the loss.
3. It is better to improve yourself than giving expensive gifts
Giving valuables is the most unnecessary and useless way. If you are rich, you can give them away, but if This money accounts for a large part of your income, and it will appear that you are trying to reach her. This is increasing her appetite. You can only give more and more expensive gifts. If you don't buy it next time, she will definitely say that you don't love her anymore. What should you do? It is much more useful to use the money to dress up and package yourself, improve your image, and even buy things you like than giving them to girls.
I have read a story before: a girl was sick, and her boyfriend borrowed money from everywhere and spent 300,000 to treat her. Well, after the girl found out that her boyfriend owed a lot of debt, she broke up with her. This society is such a reality, girls will not be with you because they are moved, but they will be with youStarting, what will she get. Therefore, boys should focus on improving their own value. When their own value is high, a lot of outstanding girls will pay you back instead of giving you gifts. Be sure not to do anything that will make you lose value! !
