When I first started chasing a girl, I was very harmonious whether chatting or dating. But after chasing for a while, I don’t know what happened. She seemed to suddenly lose interest in me. What is the reason?<br/ >
1. Why did the girl I was chasing suddenly become cold?
There are three major misunderstandings in life: the phone vibrates, someone Knock on the door, she likes you.
This illusion will make you consciously think about the commonalities between two people. Maybe those commonalities were originally just popular among the public, but because it is her, you feel different. If this does not count, Love, what do I have to be sad about.
We all know that when two people first get to know each other, that is when they are most interested in each other. You are both a blank slate in each other’s memory.
But as time passes, you continue to invest time, energy and even money in the other person.
But the feedback I got is getting worse and worse, just like buying an old mobile phone on Xianyu. The signal is good sometimes and the signal is bad!
It may be that at first it is WeChat replies instantly, emoticons are a must-have, and then it turns into uh-huh, oh-oh, I’ll talk about it when I have time, I’m busy first! This kind of prevaricating words.
Everyone’s situation is different, and there are many reasons, but the most important thing is that the methods are wrong!
Boys often feel that they are constantly chatting with girls and inviting her to dinner. Buy her gifts, agree to all her requests, whether excessive or not, and one day she will be with you.
It’s like you have to take a math test the next day, but you memorize words all night.
It’s like you are playing Brawl in the Wild, but you are thinking about how to fight in the wild.
Although love is not a game, it also has its rules and methods;
The essence of love is that two people are attracted to each other, have resonance, and have endless words and endless love. . When a girl becomes curious and interested in you, it is possible for her to develop into love.
Today I will tell you some ways to make girls more and more interested in you!
< h2>2. How to make girls become more and more interested in you1. Show your own standards
Boys who have self-standards mean that you have your own judgment on things. Strength and principles will not follow the crowd.
It is also a nine-year compulsory education. Most boys and girls are actually similar in terms of the most basic standards of outlook on life and money consumption.
What many boys really ignore are often the details in life.
For example, a girl asks you, should we go to drink milk tea or coffee, eat hot pot or maocai, should we go to your house, my house or Home Inn?
It doesn’t matter whether you tell her or not, it’s up to you.
In this case, if a girl doesn’t say goodbye to you yet, it might be true love. What are you waiting for!
A real man should have his own standards, whether it’s eating or wearing clothes. Clothing to sleep, or feelings.
Can tell each other quickly and calmly:
I like hot pot, not maocai;
I like Uniqlo, not trendy brands;
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I prefer to use Durex instead of Jazzbond.
Rather than waiting for a girl to ask you.
There are many boys who may fall in love with a girl just around the corner.
Whether the personalities are compatible, whether the values ????are consistent, and whether the living habits are compatible, these factors will definitely not be taken into consideration at the moment when the small flame of love is ignited.
When you are carried away by love, you always put the girl you like first, and you will accept anything to get the girl to be with you.
But girls don’t like fans who always applaud them, so they have to keep a good balance when they get along.
If the three views are inconsistent, we really can’t make do with each other. Even if the conversation you had before lasts forever, it will last forever.
2. Mobilize her emotions
It is probably to actively arouse the emotional changes of girls and make her like them. Chat with you and enjoy the atmosphere of your chat.
Next, we will explain how to use this method in two stages.
Initial acquaintance stage
Since you have just met the girl and don’t know her well yet, don’t make random jokes at this time, but you can use appropriate humor to make the girl happy.
You can find topics from her Moments, avatars, etc., but you have to control the frequency. Generally, just chat a few words every few days. If the other party is someone who likes to post in Moments, you can first chat with friends. Circle comments, and if the interaction is good, you can chat privately.
For example, I saw some very interesting things from your circle of friends.
Girls will ask, what is it?
Just say, I can see the enthusiasm in your eyes for me.
Because everyone is curious, asking her this will naturally arouse her curiosity, and then you will have a chance to find something to say.
For example:
Male: You like One Piece very much, right?
Female: How do you know?
Male: I saw it Your WeChat avatar, hahaha
Female: Yeah
Male: Did you go see that movie some time ago
Female: Yeah, quite Not bad
Male:Which character do you like best?
Female: Balabala...
Ambiguous stage
For example:
Male: What are you doing today? The lipstick color is very nice
Female: Yes, do you still know this?
Male: Hahaha, it’s just that you said you liked this when I went out with you last time I went to look at a certain treasure
Female: Hahahahaha, so you want to buy it for me
Male: You already have them, you need one to go with this Scarf in color number.
Female: Not bad, I understand very well!
Of course, the concern mentioned here is expressed If you don’t know how to express your inner concern so that the other party will understand your feelings, then you should remember this formula: details + actions.
For example, if you are talking about good night, you will express your concern like this:
Male: Good night
Female: Good night
Male: Don’t close the windows at night
Female:??
Male: I want to crawl into your dream (action)
Female: Hahahahahahaha, It’s too scary
Male: Remember to cover yourself with the quilt. It’s best to block the gap around your neck with clothes so that no wind can get in. I don’t want to see someone with a runny nose in my dream. Of you (details)
Female: OK, I know, hehe
