You may have also encountered a girl like this: She looks very lovable, and you can’t help but want to get close to her, but as soon as you get close, she will run away immediately. This kind of girl may be a girl who lacks love. . A girl who lacks love is usually caused by her childhood experiences, and her characteristics cannot be changed in a short period of time. What about the following analysis of the character of a girl who lacked love in childhood? How to chase a girl who lacks love?
1. The character of a girl who lacked love in childhood
Girls who lack love in childhood are most likely to be emotionally drained when they grow up. Because they are the kind of people who don't like oil and salt, they only like to endure hardship and cannot accept any "sweetness".
When they first meet, boys will find that they are very polite and polite, and even so polite that people feel a strong sense of distance. And when boys want to get close to them, their first reaction is always to stay away and escape. Boys will interpret their attitude as indifference to themselves, and it is impossible to understand their behavior of choosing to stay away due to fear, so they will Many opportunities for love are missed.
Until they meet a persistent boy, or they suddenly gain courage and take the step of establishing a relationship, they will give each other It brings a lot of pressure, because as soon as they fall in love, they start planning "for the rest of their lives." They will put down their work and devote themselves to love, repeatedly asking and testing whether the other person will love them for the rest of their lives. If there is any contradiction, they will extend it to the point where they think it may be like this for the rest of their lives and have the urge to break up and ask the other person to redeem themselves. They will dig out their hearts and souls. Pay for the other person and hope that the other person will pay for you in the same way. They have endless emotional needs that need to be satisfied by each other. Therefore, after getting together, boys will find that they are always dissatisfied with him, full of negative energy, and often resentful and depressed.
After being together for a long time, they will project many internal problems into the relationship and create conflicts. They are full of distrust and hostility towards others and the world, and then they project these onto the boy closest to them. If a boy neglects them and loses his previous enthusiasm, they will think that the boy wants to cheat; if the boy does not want to be controlled in his social life and savings, they will think that the boy is leaving a way out; if the boy is not actively preparing to get married, they will think that the boy is just looking for a horse. . Even if they mentally know that their thoughts are all imagination, they cannot control themselves. They expect boys to solve their insecurities, so they must project the problems. The result is that boys often identify with their projections and really want to After cheating, I really started to leave a way out, I really looked for a horse by riding a donkey.
After a heartbreaking breakup, in order to escape the terrible sense of emptiness and frustration caused by the breakup, they will quickly fall in love with another person again, and then repeat the above story.
2. How to chase a girl who lacks love
In fact, it is easy to chase a girl who lacked love in childhood. As long as you treat her sincerely and persevere, you can usually chase her. But the difficulty is actually how to stay with her for a long time. Because having a childhood love will indeed make her unable to treat love correctly, and it will also easily make her partner feel tired. If you want to be with a girl who lacks love, you need to be fully prepared, otherwise you may want to run away one day.
