When boys chase girls, they will be nice to her at the beginning, saying good morning and night, giving umbrellas on rainy days, and loving breakfasts... Some people do succeed in chasing girls, but some people end up being dealt the good guy card. What's the difference? If you are nice to a girl, will she like you? In fact, it is useless for her to chase girls' glory. Let's use a case to illustrate it for everyone:
The first time Li Gang met Wan Ling was during the freshman orientation work. At that time, Li Gang met Wan Ling. He felt that she was very beautiful, and it happened that he wanted to help the new students get familiar with the environment, so Li Gang volunteered to help Wan Ling carry her luggage and familiarize her with the registration process. After a few hours of busy work, Li Gang finally got Wan Ling Sent to the dormitory, everything was arranged.
In order to thank Li Gang, Wan Ling proposed to treat him to dinner in the evening, and Li Gang accepted it gladly, thinking this was a good start. . So after returning to the dormitory, Li Gang began to tidy up and prepared a lot of topics to talk about, hoping to leave a good impression on Wan Ling.
In order to show that he is a gentleman, Li Gang also specially prepared a small gift for Wan Ling. Unexpectedly, Wan Ling rejected this gift during the meal, which made Li Gang very puzzled: "Is she not interested in me?"
After being rejected that time, Li Gang He began to chase Wan Ling fiercely, waiting for Wan Ling to finish class, wait for her to eat, buy her medicine when she was sick, etc. Wan Ling did not refuse at first, thinking that he had just arrived at school, and it was good to have such a senior who could take care of him. of.
Until one day, Li Gang finally couldn't help but confess his love to Wan Ling on WeChat, but he didn't expect that what he got in exchange was another rejection. According to Wan Ling himself, he just thought the senior was quite enthusiastic at first, but he really didn't feel that way about him. He had just arrived at school and didn't have many friends, so it was hard to reject him outright at the beginning.
Wan Ling thought that Li Gang would give up after being rejected. Unexpectedly, he became more and more energetic. He cared about him every day, sent gifts every once in a while, and often invited Wan Ling to dinner, and Wan Ling also From the rejection at the beginning to the non-rejection later, the meal was eaten and the gifts were received. No matter how good Li Gang was to her, he just didn't agree to be together.
The general content of the story ends here. We might as well analyze this case first.
As the saying goes, the most fearful thing in a relationship is the unequal income and expenditure of two people. After all, unilateral contribution is just unrequited love. .
Boys think that they are chasing love, but in fact they are just condoning love or even insulting love. It is obviously not advisable to put down your dignity for the girl you like.
Many people think that if you love her, you have to be nice to her. As long as you touch her, you will be with you. If the other person doesn’t even like you, how can he be with you?How about getting up? A woman will never lack men who are good to her, especially beautiful girls, and you are just one of them. What qualifications and advantages do you have to defeat other men?
Instead, it will put pressure on girls and make them stay away from you.
For girls, knowing that a boy cannot be unconditionally good to you, why can you feel so at ease when accepting others' contributions? Of course, I have to say that this is something boys are used to. I think that if one more person treats me well, I won’t suffer anyway, and I also made it clear that I don’t like him. He is willing to pay for me. That is his business. .
If boys are stupid in this relationship, then girls are mean. A girl without principles does not deserve to be loved by a man. Respectfully, although you rejected the boy, you didn't reject the boy's kindness to you. Isn't it just to satisfy your own vanity?
Stupid men think about how to please girls, smart boys think about how to attract girls, and capable men think about how to conquer girls. Stupid girls think about how to control men, smart women think about how to understand men, and wise women think about how to control themselves.
From this point of view, both Li Gang and Wan Ling belong to the stupid category. Li Gang's unwillingness to give up after being rejected may be more due to unwillingness, and Wan Ling just does not want to let this go. To be kind to a man who is good to you, and enjoy the man's devotion to you, to put it bluntly, they all have their own agendas, so I say they are all insulting love.
