When chatting with girls, I always feel that something is wrong. Although the conversation is good, the relationship has been far and near, and there has been no substantial progress. In fact, just because a girl is willing to chat with you doesn't mean that you definitely have a chance. Let me analyze this issue for you. If girls appear in these 3 situations during chat, then there is no need to waste your time.
1. An emotionless answering machine
The girl you like will answer whether you love her or not Yes, it hurts so much. But from another perspective, at least people don’t like to be frank, right?
There are also girls who will reply to you every time you chat with her, and she can’t find fault with her every time. Very polite. But it just gives people a feeling of being rejected thousands of miles away.
Why?
This is like those zombie friends in WeChat. They won’t be invited to chat for 800 years, but WeChat will not block or block them, which makes you feel like The illusion that people still treat you as a friend.
If you send her a message, people might ask: "Who are you?" Is such a friend really meaningful?
So, this kind of thing Chatting is actually ineffective at all. It is obvious that the other party is not interested in you strongly enough. If you encounter this kind of situation, just let it go.
2. I only come to you when I am lonely
There is a kind of girl who will take the initiative to chat with you. It gives people the illusion that she still needs me very much, otherwise why would she take the initiative to find me?
But in fact, if you think about it carefully, you will find that when people live a fulfilling life and have someone to accompany them, they will not think of you at all. , only when I am bored and lonely can I think of you.
So, don’t take yourself too seriously. You have to think about what a normal girl who really likes you should look like?
She can stay up late at night She can call you from time to time, but she definitely doesn’t come out only at midnight, right?
She can talk to you about her unpleasant experiences, but she definitely doesn’t treat you as a pure emotional trash can, right?
She can have other friends of the opposite sex, but she will never ignore your feelings and be ready to give up on you at any time, right?
Although girls are most likely to be emotional in their thoughts in the dead of night, but don’t get caught up in it. I can't get in or out.
3. You can find her when she needs you
Some girls don’t have a special relationship. It's close, but when she wants something from you, she smiles like a flower, talks sweetly and acts coquettishly, and most people can't resist it.
However, once you finish helping me, you will never see me again.She is no longer like that, and she can't even be found at all.
Send a message and wait a day before replying, or not reply at all.
Many boys cannot make up their mind to give up on this kind of girl, so even if they feel a little hurt, they still harbor illusions.
Whenever a girl shows some kindness, you will rush to greet her immediately, but in fact, you know very well in your heart that they just use you as a spare tire.
For this kind of person, it is better to let go as soon as possible. The long-term pain is not as good as the short-term pain.
