When a male friend is chasing a girl, no matter what stage you are chasing, as long as you accidentally touch the girl's nerves, it is very likely that your pursuit will turn into a breakup, so the editor below will give you the following boys There are eight common mistakes made when chasing girls. If you don’t want to be disgusted by girls, you must pay attention to them carefully.
1. Don’t understand
I started talking to girls about love affairs after only a few meetings. This will embarrass many girls. It's usually not a good idea to get straight to the point like this. You should always get to know each other before chasing a girl. Being too impatient will only make the girl think that you are dating for some purpose.
2. Use material inducements
Even if you are rich, there are still many girls who are not money-loving people. If you give her many expensive gifts, it will cause pressure on girls. Make girls embarrassed. Because the relationship between you two has been surpassed by material things, girls will still worry that this favor will not be repaid.
3. Giving blindly
Giving is a good thing, but giving blindly is not necessarily a good thing. Especially in the process of chasing girls, you must have a certain degree of control in everything. Don't pay too much materially, as this will put some pressure on girls.
In a relationship between the sexes, a girl’s emotional experience does not depend on what she gets from you, but on what she gives for the relationship. People only care about what they have already invested. Unfortunately, men often ignore this crucial rule of human nature.
If you think you are treating a woman well, she will do the same to you. Invite her to dinner, send her flowers, and help her repair her computer. Eventually she will say to you: "You are very nice, but we can only be friends."
So don't be infatuated with a person; Contact more women, you can accumulate experience in interacting with women, expand your social circle and contact more different people. The more you come into contact with women, your charm and experience will be greatly improved.
4. Care too much about what women say
A woman’s sixth sense will tell you that, If you always care about what she says, she will feel that you value her enough, and she will not make any efforts for you, because she no longer needs it, and you value her so much.
5. Too much pretense
Many boys like to look cool and praise themselves in front of the girls they like. Not only does he have a strong self-esteem, but he is also arrogant. He can't lower his head to chase girls, and he always hints to girls about his various advantages, hoping that girls will know how powerful he is. These will not cause girls to like you, because girls like mature and stable people.
6. Expose a sense of need
To give a typical example, you send a text message to a girl, and the girl replies to you 20 minutes later.You reply immediately after seeing the text message. This means at least two things. First, you are very free, otherwise you would not have anything to do to check your phone. The second is that you are in short supply of women, otherwise you wouldn’t be able to reply so quickly. Just imagine, no matter which of these two points this girl uses to miss you, it will be detrimental to you, so the correct approach is for her to reply to you every 20 minutes and a similar amount of time. This will neither reveal her neediness nor generate any negative feelings towards the girl. A sense of oppression, this is a positive interaction.
7. How are my friends?
Many men always like to tell the girls they like: How are my friends? In fact, no one knows how your friends are, even if you If your friends are from the rich generation and their homes are filled with gold and silver, that is your friend's business. Don't keep mentioning how your friends are doing. This will make girls think that you have no confidence in yourself and no confidence.
8. Complain all the time
Any time a boy complains in front of a girl for just a short while, it will leave a particularly bad impression on the girl. If you go on a date with a girl for the first time, everyone would be happy on the first date, but you will talk about unhappy topics. At this time, girls will feel in their hearts: 1. This person is dissatisfied with life, so stay away from him. 2. I’m not your so-and-so. What’s the use of telling me these complaints? What do you want from me?
