"Why can't I catch up with girls? Do I really want to be an orphan?"
In order to help brothers who have this kind of cry in their hearts get rid of the fate of being single, today Xiao The editor will tell you 3 characteristics that men who focus on being an orphan have. I hope everyone will correct it and encourage others to do so.
1. Too low a posture
Many boys have a wrong view when chasing girls. That is, I think that by being nice to girls and catering to girls’ opinions, I can woo girls.
In fact, this is the opposite direction. You know, a girl will only be attracted to you because you are thoughtful and independent, but she will not like you because you always agree with her and treat her well.
Generally speaking, girls lack independent opinions. No matter how strong a woman is, there will be times when her heart is fragile. If you always blindly agree with and cater to her opinions, not only will this not win her heart, but it will make her think you are weak and unattractive. For women, they appreciate independent-minded men more. Especially when she is vulnerable and at a loss, your guidance and responsibility are the biggest shining points.
And if a girl is attracted to you, no matter what you do, she may think that you are good to her. But if you are not attracted to her, in other words, if she is not attracted to you, no matter how nice you are to her, it will be worthless in her eyes.
The above two behaviors are both manifestations of a low posture, which are characteristics of single-minded men. The result is that you will become her best friend, or even a humanoid atm.
2. Loves to talk big words
I saw a sentence before that I think makes sense: "That's how people are. The less powerful they are, the more they love to talk big. Only people who have no strength in the world hope to be appreciated by others all day long."
Some men feel that "they have slept with many girls" Remarkable and worthy of worship. So with little love experience, the girl asked how many girlfriends she had, and she wanted to say that all the women delivering food were her harem.
In fact, no girl wants her boyfriend to be a playboy in the past, which makes people very insecure.
Don’t tell the world about your ideas before they are implemented; if someone comes to you for help but you are not sure whether you can do something, you can say to them, “I’m not sure, but I’m willing to try my best.” . ”
People who like to talk big will always be hated. People who are humble and down-to-earth are easily trusted by others. If things go on like this, more and more people will be attracted to you. Not only the relationship, but even the path of life is easier than others.
3. Will not take the initiative to chase girls
Relationships do not wait, nor do they start after everything is ready. The moment your heart moves, you should take action.
There is a brother in college who is very good at studies. In order to chase girls, he demoted himself to our inferior class. We said that you have done a good job and should take action. But the brother said: "No, What I did is not good enough, wait until I get the first place in my grade, then I will chase after it!"
As a result, in the three years of college, girls changed boyfriends like a revolving door, while he was waiting for me to do well. When you chase again, it is a cowardly expression that nothing is ready in the world, and you will always owe it to the east wind, but you still have to take the initiative. Only when you grasp it can you have a chance to succeed. Opportunities will not wait for you, and girls will not. I won’t wait for you!
So, if you can only wait and don’t take the initiative to chase girls, then you can only be the man who lives alone.
