Why do some boys still fail to pursue girls even though they have worked very hard? To some extent, the method is wrong. This may not be your fault. Many times you make mistakes unconsciously, and you don't even realize it yet. But it's not too late. Let me share with you what is the most effective way to chase girls? It’s actually not difficult to do.
1. Girls love licking but not dogs
Dog licking has always been immersed in the self-movement of humble giving without asking for anything in return. As a result, all kinds of ridicule and ridicule about dog licking were overwhelming. Dog licking became one extreme, and another extreme was derived from not doing dog licking.
Some men who think they are sober hold high the banner of not being a dog licker, deliberately not wanting to expose themselves, as if if they take the slightest initiative, they will be trapped in the shame circle of dog lickers. They obviously like each other very much, but they deliberately hide it because they are afraid of being a bitch. The conversation was lively one second, but suddenly stopped the next second.
Yesterday she was fine, but today she is lukewarm. He obviously appreciates her beauty, but he criticizes her for being too ugly without makeup. You'll end up worse than a licking dog. I think you must have some misunderstanding about dog licking.
In fact, when you are chasing a girl, you are already licking, just a very slight lick, and it is not considered a dog.
Due to human nature, girls actually like the feeling of being licked by men. No woman is not vain.
A very simple question, do you think girls would mind if a man chases them? This is the same as celebrities never mind having many fans. Only when someone likes and chases them can they prove that they are attractive. She loves being licked, she just doesn't like being licked by a dog.
Only when she is good to you, you should be good to her. This is called "being good to her". If you lick it just right, she will have feelings for you, and you will be a warm man no matter what you do.
She treats you badly, but you treat her well. This is called dog licking. It is extremely disgusting. She hates you, and she feels annoyed when you pick stars for her.
What does it mean to lick without being a dog? The premise of being good to her is to care about her thoughts and actions. A licking dog only cares about her thoughts and not her actions. The second "trap" you put on her is to lick her without being a dog, to be kind to her without losing your dignity is to be warm, and to give in without a bottom line is to be a dog.
2. There is no good or bad in the eyes of girls
Human nature is like this. When you haven’t got something yet, what you are thinking about must be its advantages. When you have already got something Finally, what you are nagging about must be its shortcomings. This set of mental programs is completely automatic, innate and cannot be learned.
In order to delay girls from being picky about them, many brothers package their good qualities in an exaggerated way, which is tantamount to playing with fire. Let's put it this way, a woman as beautiful as a certain Bingbing falls in love with you at first sight, confesses her love to you within three days, pursues you in every possible way, and looks like she can't live without you. Believe it or not, when you are excited, you will feel uneasy and whisper unconsciously.
"Does she have any ulterior motives? Otherwise, why would she fall in love with me and be so impatient?"
Then she started to find fault with her like a successful person, thinking that she was not so perfect.
"Although she is quite beautiful, she is a bit short, and she spends money lavishly."
So, you may choose to wait and see what happens to her and see if she has anything. Yao Mozi. Turn your identity upside down, and now you are packaged impeccably, and you are wooing her in every possible way, while she is waiting to see what kind of medicine you are selling in your gourd.
Once you are embarrassed, she will applaud you, thinking that you are just as expected, and even if you don’t say that you have evil intentions, it is all lies.
Smart people understand human nature well and will not exaggerate their good qualities, nor are they afraid of exposing their bad qualities. Instead, they will find ways to turn disadvantages into advantages.
For example, she asked you to get a glass of water on a date.
If you pour the water like a waiter and hand it to her respectfully, then congratulations, you will get a spare tire label three months later.
At that time, she would not only ask you to pour water, but she would also find it objectionable that the water temperature was too hot or too cold, and she would even be picky about your pouring posture.
This is your disadvantage.
It can also be your advantage.
If you are not familiar with each other, you can say: "Pass me a bag."
If you are friends, you can joke: "Dalang, you took medicine."
If you are having an affair, you can tease: "Good boy, call me Oppa."
If you are passionately in love, you can flirt: "Kiss me and I'll feed you."
Summary: In fact, when it comes to chasing girls, it is better to think about women as simply as possible. Just start from the most primitive human nature, and you will not be framed. Don't look up, don't look down, look at her levelly, then the trick will work.
