Many people think that the harder a girl is to woo, the more valuable she is, but this is actually a wrong concept of love. Only those who have chased and failed will understand: the harder a girl is to woo, the less happy the relationship will be.
In reality, this kind of forced love usually ends in a not-so-good ending...
< p> Falling in love is not like Monk Tang’s study of Buddhist scriptures. He had to go through all the ninety-nine and eighty-one difficulties before he would give you the true scriptures.Why is it so hard to chase a girl? In the final analysis, it’s not because you are not her type. The higher the difficulty, the more deeply rooted her dislike for you is.
If you catch up... Just imagine, how could a girl who doesn't like you change her mind?
There are only two possibilities for this kind of thing. The first is because The girl found out that your house was demolished.
The second type can only be because you kneel and lick her without any principles or limits, exchanging dignity for the girl’s attention. In the end, the girl really can’t get enough of you, and there is no other better choice. Then she thought: Give it a try.
So you caught up.
Forced twisting melon, it’s really not sweet!
A girl doesn’t like you from the bottom of her heart. Even if the relationship is confirmed, she will not be willing to give you happiness. Once there is a chance, , she will leave you without hesitation.
Of course, if what you enjoy is the process of twisting melons, then you have not said anything before.
Exchanging unnecessary suffering for insincere feelings may be the most meaningless thing in the world. Apart from proving that you are dedicated, it has no value anymore.
Only those who have failed will understand the feeling of powerlessness. It is like spending days and nights studying strategies and practicing skills, and finally succeeded in creating a dungeon, only to find that this BOSS is not It will explode the equipment you can use.
On the contrary, those girls who always respond positively to you and make you feel that it is easy and comfortable to chase you are the ones who are really in tune with you. type.
What love is about is a virtuous circle. After all, what we establish with girls is an intimate relationship from soul to body. The kind of relationship where you torture me and I torture you will not last long!
Many things are like this. If you have never chased a girl, you would never think of it. There are many more things that can only be understood by experiencing failure! Below I will just say a few things that will help everyone in chasing girls.
Best friends play a very important role in a girl’s relationship.
Anyone with experience knows that a girl’s best friend is one of the most magical creatures in the world. Best friends especially like to tell each other’s feelings, but girls also like to listen to their best friends!
So some boys don’t know why they get cold feet after chasing each other. In fact, it’s not that the girl he is chasing doesn’t like him, but that his best friend has a bad impression of him, and then she turns a deaf ear to the girl: “That guy is really bad. Oh my God, I found something wrong with the guy chasing you. "Then you're done...
Some people deliberately act coldly in front of their besties in order to avoid suspicion and prevent the girl they like from misunderstanding. You won't need to do that in the future. That’s it!
First understand what kind of person the target girl’s best friend is, and then leave a good impression on her best friend (but don’t deliberately try to please her best friend). In a few days you will I found that it was much more effective than chasing her directly.
And from another perspective, girls and best friends generally either have complementary personalities or birds of a feather flock together. That is to say, after knowing what kind of person her best friend is, you will basically know what kind of person the girl you want to pursue is (the target girl will hide herself in front of you, but her best friends generally will not, so start with the best friend). It’s much easier to get to know her directly).
Girls are actually no different from us, maybe... more sloppy.
Every boy will have fantasies about the opposite sex since puberty, especially for boys who have no older sisters or sisters. The word "girl" is full of mystery, so the girls in many people's fantasies are always It is so perfect, shining like a goddess, it is synonymous with perfection.
Later I actually dated girls and realized that they are the same species as us, they are also human beings, and they are mortals. There is no difference between us. They even pick their feet and pick their noses.
I was totally shocked when I entered a girl’s “boudoir” for the first time. Before that, I had never thought that a girl’s room could be so messy and unbearable. Perhaps only the sloppiest men could be. Only then can he fight with it. Later, as I grew older and more experienced, I saw more and more aspects of girls that were no different from boys, or even more miserable.
Why I say this is because too many people treat girls like goddesses, holding them in their hands and worshiping them with a submissive and trembling look. This is not telling girls: I am inferior to you. Wait.
Anyone who regards a girl as a goddess deserves to kneel and lick her! Men should be generous, have a frame, and have their own opinions.
You can listen to girls’ opinions, but you have to come up with the ideas.
For example, girls like to say "whatever" and "it's up to you". Then the boys say okay, what about us, and the girls say "no" or "no". At this time, many boys get numb. Then he continued to say, "Let's do that," and then the girl still said "no" and "no"...it went back and forth, but in the end, the girl got angry and broke up..
This plot is as cliche as the relationship between men and women...
So is it the boy or the girl who is wrong?
The boy is wrong Oh!
What's wrong? The mistake is that you don't need to change your mind one after another. In fact, you can do whatever you want. You don't need to ask girls: "How about we go to XX?"
The girl’s meaning is actually very simple: “I really don’t know what I want. Do you have your own ideas? Why do you always ask me?”
Remember, love The position of middle school boys is that of leaders, who focus on action. Don't keep asking just because she says no or not. It may seem like you respect the girl's opinion, but in fact it will annoy the girl.
