When you first add a girl on WeChat, your circle of friends can be said to be your social business card. If your circle of friends is all reposts and chicken soup, which is unattractive, it is very likely that the other party will not even be interested in chatting with you. In this case, what is the use of adding more girls!
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First of all, you must know that no matter what kind of person you are, there is only one purpose for posting on Moments, and that is to "find recognition."
Because according to evolutionary psychology, humans have always been a highly social and communal species. If they are not recognized by others, they will be abandoned and isolated in primitive society.
The same is true in today’s modern society. Everyone’s social activities are inseparable from the word recognition. It creates feelings of closeness, heartbeat, etc. between people.
A good circle of friends can allow you to maximize the recognition of other people in your WeChat social interaction, and encourage everyone to use it better for communication. So how can long-term single people post in WeChat Moments to be attractive?
1. Show your positivity
No one likes to read negative information, especially after a day of work when you are already very tired. If you open your Moments and see someone complaining, I believe they will be automatically blocked. Let’s compare the two copywriting here;
The first copywriting in Moments is like this: “If a person knows how to do it, then he will never be unemployed. If a person knows why he goes If he does, he will always be his own master - I think this is the ability to solve problems and self-repair. I hope I can always have it.”
The other article is the text of the circle of friends. Post something like this: "I was scolded by my boss again today. I'm really annoyed and I don't want to work anymore." Judging from the two copywritings, which person would you be more willing to contact? I think it must be the first one.
So if you are in a bad mood and want to express your emotions by posting on WeChat Moments, it is recommended to use inspirational or ridiculing methods to post on Moments, which can not only express your emotions, but also cover up your sadness.
A friend of mine has been immersed in the pain of a broken relationship for a long time. I have known her for more than two years and I have never seen her walk away. come out.
Her WeChat messages are full of messages that imply that a certain person will read them, such as:
"Why am I alone? I am so lonely, so lonely. Find someone who loves you." Why is it so difficult?”
WeChat content that exposes a sense of need will make people want to trick you, thinking that it is easy for you to get it, and they don’t need to be responsible for you.
So, the value display in the circle of friends must be positive and uplifting.
2. Increase interaction when sharing lyrics and poems
When people are in love with a scene, it is also their favorite time to post status on their circle of friends, maybe because they want to see who else is there. You're as awake as yourself. Maybe you hope that the person you like can notice your emotions, but you don't know what to post, so you simply post lyrics or literary quotations. However, this kind of circle of friends is often difficult. There are two reasons for getting responses from friends.
The first: I think such a circle of friends has no personal value;
The second: it is difficult to find an angle from which to reply.
If you like to excerpt some short literary sentences in your circle of friends, I suggest you add your reflections after the excerpt, or make some adaptations to make your quotations full of personal color.
For example, you like Romain Rolland’s wise saying, “There is only one kind of heroism in life, which is to still love life after recognizing the truth of life. ”
You can adapt this sentence to your personal life situation. When you can’t help but want to eat a late-night snack in the middle of the night, order a takeaway for yourself and take a picture of your greedy look at this time. , and then boldly rewrite the sentence; "There is only one kind of heroism in life, which is to still buy milk tea after recognizing the temptation."
p>3. Show your true value
Value does not mean that you have to have a house, a car, and an annual income of one million. The value you want to show is "a value higher than others." ”, rather than “high value”.
Let’s give a few examples!
We all don’t have time to cook for ourselves. If you have leisure time, you can make lunch for yourself;
Everyone is running around for a living and has no time to enjoy life, but you have always had a persistent hobby;
Everyone usually only knows how to read jokes, but you are a member of the circle of friends Nonsense joker...
None of these things are valuable, but they are all "higher value than others" - a person's value has nothing to do with the money he shows. It has something to do with whether the status and value he shows are unique enough.
Our personal value display has nothing to do with money or social status. I show my unique side. I have value that you never have. Let you see the things you have always wanted to do but failed to do. Less routine and more sincerity are the most profound value demonstrations.
