The reason why many boys find it difficult to chase girls is because they have not mastered the correct methods of chasing girls and have made some common mistakes in chasing girls, which will only push girls further and further away. Let’s analyze the most common mistakes that boys make when chasing girls, and hope that everyone can avoid making them.
The most common mistakes that boys make when chasing girls
The most common mistakes that boys make when chasing girls are confessing their love without a few words of conversation, and stalking after being rejected. genus. These two items have the greatest impact and are best avoided in advance. After reading the following content, you will know when to confess your love to a girl and how to know in advance whether a girl will reject you.
The girls around me that I can successfully pursue are basically normal pursuits. Yes, you read that right, just normal pursuits.
Because many people in today's society lack a sense of security. If others are too busy at work and forget to reply to messages, they will wonder if they are not worthy of being loved, and begin to actively alienate each other. There are also some people who pursue efficiency, like to cast a wide net, and like to be ambiguous without a few words of conversation. If it works, they will be rejected, and if it doesn't work, they will be kicked out. They are completely careless. When pursuing in this way, the success rate is very poor, and even if they are together, they will break up quickly.
1. When should you confess your love to a girl?
We can divide the process of chasing a girl into "decision-making" ” and “practical type”. And what you can control can only be "decision-making":
Whether to confess;
Whether to give up;
Whether to continue pursuing;
Should you give a gift?
Should you get back what you have given?
Basically all actions revolve around yes or no.
The best state for making decisions is to wait until you are calm before making a choice.
Take chasing a girl as an example. At the beginning, you must first make her think of you. Know that you are not harmful to her, and then understand your personal hobbies and lifestyle. When she feels that your lifestyle is pretty good, she will definitely think about what it would be like to be with you. Of course she won't say it out loud, but she will definitely have thought about it. At this time, your confession success rate is the highest.
With a simple sense of security, value comes first, and then experience follows. Instead of thinking about giving gifts and blindly insisting on moving others. You yourself would not fall in love with a stranger who confesses his love to you without a few words of conversation, so why would others fall in love with you? Right.
2. How to confess your love to a girl
"Practical type" is something you can do, but Everyone presents it in a different way:
How long should we chat? What to share?
When to terminate the chat?
How to invite?
HowHow do I know if the other person likes me?
How to make the other person feel emotional?
Basically, they tend to be implemented on the ground. I don’t have much else to say. Let’s talk about now, when is the most reasonable time to confess your feelings and has the highest success rate. As long as you succeed once, it is not considered a stalker. Confession is the clarion call for victory, not the charge to launch an attack. When she has a good impression of you and is willing to understand your emotional life, you can ask the following questions:
What type of person are you?
As long as she doesn’t deny you, we can continue to tentatively say to her:
I don’t know what it will be like for us to be together?
See if she caters to you. If so, why are you standing still?
Get in the car quickly.
If she can’t say it well and it feels inappropriate, you can stop pushing forward and exchange views.
Why do you say that? I think it's okay.
Don’t retreat immediately, and don’t say I was joking. You have to remember to never say you are joking while moving forward in a relationship. Have you ever seen a mature person make fun of his love? If you really want to establish a relationship with her, have a good chat first, maybe 30 to 60 sentences, when everyone is in a good chat atmosphere and respond quickly.
You can try to guide her into emotional topics. It will be much more reliable to let her have the idea of ????love first, and then consider other things.
