When chatting with a girl, it is quite common for her to reply very little, especially for girls with cold personalities or high values. So is this situation a sign that there is no chance?
In fact, it is not. If you use the right method, you can still make the other party reply more. So how to do it specifically?
First of all, the opening statement should avoid a series of life-threatening questions. This kind of chat opening actually conveys a message to girls: you have no topic, and you like girls. The result is that you can only Follow the girl's emotions. If a girl wants to respond to you, she will respond to you. If she doesn't want to, you won't. And if a girl knows that you like her and want to pursue her, she will become more confident and you can only be in a passive state.
Then use the following 3 techniques to slowly attract her:
1. Diminishing margins, let Girls can’t guess you
Chatting with girls is nothing more than topics about you, topics about her, topics about you, and topics that have nothing to do with you. Why put your topic in the first place? Because in the initial stage, talking about your topic is to make girls interested in you. It is a process of releasing value. Just like delicious food, only the taste and appearance are good. We Only then will they choose to buy.
But if you just talk about yourself, be curious about you, and understand your advantages, but over time, this feeling will decline, and she may meet a new boy, and the boy also has his own characteristics. Advantages, girls' attention will be taken away.
You need to make full use of girls’ curiosity and constantly switch topics between topics about you, topics about her, topics about you, and topics that have nothing to do with you, so that girls can’t guess. Your thoughts make me more willing to continue chatting with you.
2. Seize the window time and upgrade the relationship
The window in chat generally refers to girls’ emotions Changes in attitude, for example: if a girl replies to you a lot, it means that the girl is very happy. Girls rarely reply to you. Maybe they are not interested in you or your topic does not attract girls. At this time, you have to grasp this window time. When a girl is happy, it shows that she is willing to open her heart to contact you and is attracted to you. Take the bait, and now you can move the relationship forward.
3. Relationship index, let the topic gradually heat up
The relationship index will also affect the relationship between you Number of topics. The topics that you can talk about when you are strangers are very limited. It is impossible for you to talk to strangers about topics that you would only talk to your parents. As the relationship deepens, the topics between you begin to broaden. For example, you can drink wine with your friends for several hours without interruption.
Chatting must have a purpose. Chatting aimlessly will only reduce your attractiveness in the eyes of the other party. Chat topics serve the purpose of chatting, and the purpose of chatting is to improve your relationship with girls, so your chat topics must serve this purpose.
There are only so many topics that you can talk about. Once you have exhausted the topics, if you and the girl are just strangers, there will be nothing left to talk about. If you can use good topics to continuously promote your relationship with the girl, and eventually realize your relationship through invitations, the chat topics will not affect you.
Of course, if after knowing a girl for a while, she suddenly responds very little when chatting, then it is because As you chat, if the girl gradually loses interest in you, it is a sign that you are about to run out of opportunities. At this time, if you want to rebuild her interest in you and make her chat no longer perfunctory, you are welcome to scan the QR code below to consult related tips.
