Many girls are reserved and introverted. Whether they like or dislike them, they will not tell boys directly. Instead, they use various performances to hint or persuade boys away. However, many boys cannot distinguish these performances, which leads to them being rejected by girls. You don’t even know that you are disgusted by a pursuer, and you are still wasting your time pursuing him foolishly. Today, the editor will share with you some signs of a girl who dislikes a pursuer. If the girl you pursue shows these signs, you will definitely have no chance, so give up and stop the loss in time.
1. The shortcomings are infinitely magnified and the advantages are turned a blind eye
If the girl you chase will always only He mentions your shortcomings and never praises your strengths. He not only talks bad about you everywhere, but also complains everywhere. Especially for some unfamiliar men on the Internet, it means that in her eyes you are not worthy of her. In this case, don't be persistent anymore.
2. Basically not chatting with you
If a girl dislikes you very much, then she will intentionally ignore you, intentionally not answer your phone calls, and do anything to you. Indifference is very natural, and they will not actively chat with you. Chatting is basically a coping style. He will not take the initiative to say hello to you, will not take the initiative to understand your situation or solve problems, and has no interest in you. I'm not interested in you, and I won't chat with you all the time for no reason. Try to shorten the time you talk to you, and reply with "Uh-huh" and "Oh-oh". Whether on the phone or on WeChat or QQ, I will only reply "good" or "bad", "right" or "wrong" to your questions, without revealing your own information or sharing your life experiences and perceptions. Not wanting to express opinions or caring about what you share and ask means that they are not interested in you.
3. Try to avoid you
After a girl completely rejects you, you will basically not be able to see her. Even if she is your friend or classmate. She will also try her best not to take photos with you, so that you don’t take the opportunity to chase her; even if she can’t avoid taking photos with you, she must nod to say hello and then immediately pretend to be busy and run away. After all, no one wants to face the embarrassment of refusing to call their friends or classmates, and a girl who is kind to others does not want to see this happen.
4. Can’t get a date every time
Every time you want to ask her out, she They all say it's urgent or they don't have time. If they say they don't have time in a hurry, that's a sign of complete rejection by a girl. When you ask a girl out several times, but you can't go out, even though you have already told her about the date activities and made her feel that the place is risk-free and the date activities are very interesting, she just says that she is too busy and can't spare the time to accompany you. When you meet him, he shows that he is not interested in you. After all, it’s not easy for a girl to be so busy that she doesn’t have time to meet you. No matter how busy she is, if she has hobbiesMany people want to take a break even for 5 or 10 minutes. What’s more, people have to eat, and many people don’t even have time to eat.
5. Once you make an appointment, there will be no next time
Some boys will say, it’s really strange. The last time I went on a date with that girl, I felt pretty good. Not only did we chat well, but we also laughed a lot. She must be interested in me, but why can’t we date her again? I had to Said, there are many boys who often think that they behave well when dating, but the fact is not like that at all. Even if a girl feels good about going out with you, but she suddenly loses contact or there is no next time, this is a sign of complete rejection by the girl. But girls are too embarrassed to tell you the truth directly, so they have to use lack of time or disappearance as an excuse not to go to appointments in the future.
