Strike up a conversation is an efficient way to get to know girls, but without certain skills, the success rate of striking up a conversation is not that high. So how can you quickly strike up a conversation with a girl and be more likely to succeed?
1. Good mentality
What is a good mental construction? The first thing is to ease your The nervousness when talking to a strange girl, and then use your manly courage to start your first conversation. Give yourself a hint that even if you are rejected by the girl, the most you can do is look at each other and smile. Anyway, if it doesn't work, everyone will still be there. In the stage of unfamiliarity, there is no change, but if you succeed by accident, then another mode of understanding will be opened. With this kind of mentality, strike up a few more times, practice makes perfect, you may blush and feel nervous when you speak for the first time, but as the number of times increases, subsequent strike-ups will naturally become more calm.
2. Good image
First of all, you must know that a good self-image does not require you to have good looks. No matter how tall you are, you must at least be clean and well-dressed, and then get a refreshing hairstyle, at least to make yourself look sunny and not want to be a bad person. And a good image can not only improve a girl's first impression of you, but also help improve your own self-confidence.
3. Sincerity
You must know that girls must have concerns about strangers, so in order for girls to eliminate such concerns, they must be careful and guess the girl’s intentions. Ideas, for example, tell the girl what she wants to know before she wants to ask you. You can honestly tell her your name and the reason why you talked to her, so that she feels that you are a very sincere person. The relationship between them will not be as distant as it was at the beginning.
4. Reasonable reasons
When you ask for contact information, normal people will have a Prevention mechanism,
No matter you are a man or a woman (because I have also been raped).
If you can’t have a “high-sounding” reason at this time, it will be difficult to come up with it.
So this reason or measure should be controlled by yourself.
The key to obtaining contact information depends on the time and feeling during the chat between you and the girl.
The chat time and conversation experience are linearly related to the final contact method.
Generally speaking, the longer the time, the easier it is to obtain.
In the end, you only need 1 reasonable reason to get it done.
This reason is very simple. After sizing up the situation and finding a reason, you can say it to ensure victory.
The most important thing when striking up a conversation is to build trust with girls. After all, girls are naturally defensive about being approached by strangers. So when it comes to striking up a conversation, you have to be very careful and relaxed, and don't really turn yourself into a hooligan.
