Many times you will not succeed in chasing a girl. Maybe the girl tells you that she already has a boyfriend, or the girl says you are a good person, but she doesn’t like you, or the girl says she has someone she likes... In these cases, people can immediately give up. So if the girl you are chasing says that you don’t want to fall in love anymore, is it necessary to keep chasing her?
1. Depends on how much you like a girl
After a girl says she doesn’t want to fall in love, whether you want to continue pursuing her or not depends on how much you like her. If you just love her, It's tempting for a moment, but in fact you don't know if you will continue to like a girl after you get along with her, so just let it go. If you really like a girl, even if she says she doesn't want to fall in love anymore, you still don't want to give up. Then you might as well return to being friends first and treat her slowly. Girls are emotional creatures, and your gentleness and consideration may melt the high walls she has erected for herself.
2. See what girls really think
Sometimes the girl you are chasing says she doesn’t want to fall in love, maybe it’s not her. It's her true thoughts, but her excuse for rejecting you. It must be that your hardware or software does not meet the girl's requirements, so she told you this! Maybe a boy that a girl likes confesses to her, and she immediately agrees shyly, so the girl's statement that she doesn't want to be in a relationship may be a matter of judgment. Think about what pursuits you have done before? Have you exposed your need too much and failed to correctly demonstrate your high value?
Of course, it does not rule out that girls are currently busy with studies or work, and they really have no desire to fall in love. If they really don’t want to give up, then you can try and see if you can wait until she wants to fall in love before pursuing her.
3. See if girls are afraid of falling in love
Some girls say they don’t want to fall in love because of their previous She has been hurt emotionally, and she is afraid that falling in love again will have the same result, so she rejects falling in love. Instead of getting hurt and breaking up, it would be better not to start in the first place. If you really like her, you should have enough patience.
How to do it specifically?
Under the premise that she is indeed a good girl and worthy of your efforts, get along with her as a friend first, don't mention the things you have been through, and be careful with her. Learn more about each other's interests and hobbies, and let her understand what kind of person you are. If you are sunny, positive, have broad interests and are progressive, let her understand your value and your single-mindedness, and girls will naturally be attracted to you.
When you feel that the time is right and she is not so defensive about you, you can formally confess your love.
But you can’t just be a licker. Love should still be based on relative equality: when you feel that you have taken ninety-nine steps towards her, the remaining step should be for her to take the initiative to walk towards you, so You should also guide her appropriately to give to you.
If the girl you are chasing says you don’t want to fall in love, do you still want to continue chasing? It still depends on your true inner thoughts. Will you regret giving up the pursuit? Keep pursuing. Will you be disappointed if you don't succeed? Once you consider the worst consequences, it won't seem so difficult to accept it.
