Girls always have those days when they are very uncomfortable every month. If she comes to seek your comfort at this time, you will only know how to "Drink more hot water and pay attention to rest." It will easily affect your relationship. How to comfort your girlfriend who has stomachache during her menstrual period?
1. Distinguish the pain level of your girlfriend during her menstrual period
< p> Generally speaking, when a girl says she is pregnant, it is really painful, or she may want to seek your comfort. Generally speaking, it can be divided into two situations:Heartbreaking Pain: Generally speaking, girls will experience dysmenorrhea. At this time, simple words of comfort cannot play a very good comfort role.
Mild pain: Some girls have relatively mild pain when they come to visit their aunt, but they still experience physical discomfort. At this time, girls need verbal comfort.
Generally speaking, girls are extremely emotionally unstable when they come to their aunt's home. They get sad easily and lose their temper at every turn. They must learn to be tolerant when faced with this kind of situation with their girlfriends.
2. Comfort the girl according to her situation
1. When the girlfriend comes to visit her aunt, It's just a slight pain
This situation is relatively common. Generally speaking, girls are uncomfortable and in a bad mood and need companionship. It is very easy to use words such as "drink more hot water" and "pay attention to rest". Obviously it has no effect. Now you need to show your concern for her.
1) No amount of words of comfort are as good as actual actions. You can boil some brown sugar water for your girlfriend and feed it to her yourself. I think your company is what girls need the most.
2) When your girlfriend tells you that she is pregnant, her pain will actually be aggravated because she has been thinking about it. At this time, you can choose to divert her attention. Tell her a joke from time to time, tease her, and let her warm her belly with a hot water bottle.
3) When you and your girlfriend are in a different place and cannot see each other in time, you can reply to her like this:
Boy: Does your stomach still hurt?
Girl: Yeah! It still hurts
Boy: Stretch your hand out
Girl: Why?
Boy: Pass your aunt to me. You won’t feel any pain
When your girlfriend comes to visit her aunt, although you can’t bear the pain for her, you can express your understanding and empathy. I think the girl will be moved by your concern for her.
2. When my girlfriend comes to visit my aunt, it is heartbreaking pain
Girlfriend is hereWhen my aunt is pregnant, the pain is heartbreaking. Generally speaking, her physical condition will be very bad. She will have back pain, stomach pain, and even be unable to get out of bed.
In this situation, she is extremely fragile, both physically and mentally. At this time, if you only provide verbal comfort, she will feel that you do not care about her enough, so it is best to take her with you. Going to the hospital for a check-up and supervising her taking medicine is the most heart-warming way to comfort her.
1) During this period, be sure to greet her, show your meticulous concern, and help her do what you can, such as cooking, feeding her water, and giving her medicine.
2) Your girlfriend is already in a lot of pain. At this time, you must show your love for her and ask her if she still hurts and if she is better. You can put your hand on her belly and gently hug, tell jokes to the girl, and make her happy.
3) Hug her tightly and say: I’m sorry, I’m useless and I’ve left you to be my aunt!
4) For lovers in long-distance places, when your girlfriend says she is coming to visit her, since you cannot appear in front of her in time, you should pass on your love to her.
Girls: My aunt is here, it hurts so much
Boys: It makes me feel bad when you feel uncomfortable. If I am by your side, I must just hold you in my arms. Make you less painful (let girls feel your care)
Girls: xxxx (tell your pain and emotions)
Boys: Auntie is here to prove that you are still young Ah (to stimulate girls' emotions and make girls happy), it would be great if I could divert your pain. I am strong and can carry it for you, and you can comfort me (to divert girls' attention)</ p>
Girl: Haha
In fact, when your girlfriend’s menstrual period comes, it is a good opportunity to consolidate the relationship between you. As long as you are willing to pay attention and give her the company she wants. , saying some words of empathy can make her feel very warm.
