If you were to rank the types of boys that girls like, then those warm and warm guys in reality would definitely be at the top of the list. So what does a warm man mean when girls say it?
1. The meaning of a warm man
"Nuannan" is an Internet buzzword. From the literal meaning, it is not difficult to see that it refers to a boy who can bring warmth to people and is very sunny. The deeper meaning refers to those boys who can take care of their families and cook, who can not only care about and take care of others, but also pay attention to their own appearance. So how to become a warm man?
2. Three criteria for becoming a warm man
Network Some vague and general articles online will tell you that you have to be nice to a girl so that she can feel your warmth. But in fact, this is not a warm man, but just a licking dog. After all, there are still some standards for becoming a warm man. Let’s take a look at the three major standards for becoming a warm man:
1. Gentleman’s politeness
A gentleman’s polite man is It can give girls a "face"! The first impression when interacting with others is very important. Once this impression is established, it is difficult to change. If you are a man who is too frivolous in your daily life and talks openly to anyone, this will be very shameless in the eyes of girls. Some girls may also appreciate your "real" side, but starting from the social culture of the entire society, gentlemanly politeness is still a quality appreciated by the public when socializing with strangers, and it will leave a good first impression on people.
When it comes to girls, they naturally hope that their boyfriends can take action and not be embarrassed in any situation. In a social environment, you may be facing a girl's elders and friends. If you cannot gain face for her in her social circle and the girl is shamed by your behavior, think about how much she will hate you. If you are a gentle and elegant person who is polite and polite, girls will prefer you, because this is a reflection of a person's self-cultivation.
Gentlemanly politeness is a sign of restraint. You can joke with people you are close to, but don’t be too indulgent with strangers. Many brothers who claim to be straight men speak openly and say, "I am real and I don't pretend," but in fact, in social situations, this is a sign of low emotional intelligence and does not consider other people's feelings.
2. Can talk
None of those warm men who are particularly popular with girls are not good at talking. Yes, a man who is clumsy-tongued and even full of venomous tongues and is especially popular with girls only exists in legends.
What does it mean to be able to speak? Let’s use praising girls as an example.
If you directly say to a girl: "You are so beautiful." Then the girl is basically just like Haha. Who knows whether she is beautiful or not?
General compliments can easily be misunderstood as politeness. He is a "straight person" who is clumsy and short of words. Even if you think this girl is very beautiful from the bottom of your heart, you cannot make her appreciate you and like you.
In fact, girls prefer to hear you say something specific and detailed.
For example: "I found that your nose is particularly exquisite and straight. Very few people have a nose like yours." "My sister told me yesterday that she was particularly envious of your hair, which is smooth and shiny." Girl After hearing these words, I feel happy: Eh? This is really what he said. I am so good in his heart.
Therefore, the most comfortable compliments for girls are never to directly use words such as "beautiful", "good-looking", "pretty" and "cute". A good speaker only needs to objectively describe her specific parts in good words, and the girl will be fascinated by it.
3. Romantic and considerate
Gentlemanly politeness helps you establish a good first impression at the beginning of the acquaintance. Being able to talk can arouse girls' emotions, which is the main factor that makes girls fall in love with you. But if you only have these two sides, a girl will think you are a central air conditioner. You may not only do this to her, you may do this to all girls. From a girl's perspective, you don't treat her differently. In other words, he just doesn't care about her.
Romance and thoughtfulness exist just to fill this gap. If you occasionally show your special concern for her after teasing and flirting, it will warm her heart. Let her feel that you are not only a non-serious person, but also make you feel safe and warm when you are serious. Then, you have become the hot guy in the hearts of girls.
Therefore, if you want to be a warm man, you must follow the normal process. Start with gentlemanly politeness to leave a good impression on girls, and then attract girls through fun, teasing and teasing her. Flirt, then let her feel your warm and caring side. Using this correct process, I guarantee that not many girls will be able to resist.
