We say that you don’t need to chat every day when chasing a girl, but the situation is different after falling in love, and long-distance relationships are even more special. The relationship between two people is originally maintained by chatting. Does a long-distance relationship require chatting every day? The following is an analysis of the situation for everyone.
1. You can chat every day but keep yourself
Since it is a long-distance relationship, both of you must have your own life. You must first be clear that you want to be together for a lifetime, right? , then in the future, do you want to have a stable job to support you and try not to quarrel over food, rice, oil and salt all the time, to support you to go on a small trip every few months to enhance your relationship, and you should not hate this job, right? Otherwise it would be very unhappy. Okay, so what should you do now and how should you improve yourself so that you can achieve this life? Improving your inner self is no joke. You only need to have a firm self. This self may be partially changed at any time. This is okay. You will make self-adjustments as your experience increases.
2. Romance cannot be lacking in long-distance relationships
In fact, what is the key point in long-distance relationships? Good morning, good afternoon, and good night every day. This is an ideal situation, but chatting about it every day can actually make you tired. Sometimes you get up every morning and look at the other person's chat interface, whispering good morning, which is also very romantic, right?
Maybe you have just been chatting with her for a while, but you are walking and suddenly see a grapefruit tree. It was the first time you discovered that there was a grapefruit tree in the school. It was so beautiful. You really wanted to see it with her. So I couldn’t help but take a picture of the grapefruit tree for her. This kind of unintentional and subconscious sharing is actually a kind of romance, and there is no need to worry about finding someone to talk to.
3. Give each other space when chatting in long-distance relationships
The most likely time for problems in long-distance relationships is actually I sent a message to the other party, but the other party didn't reply for a long time. You may have the opportunity to think about things by yourself, but in fact she may just be busy and didn't see the elementary school you posted. So you can agree in advance: If you are busy, you don’t need to reply, and you don’t need to reply to every message. Because she might have snickered when she saw what you posted, but you behind the screen didn't know. You only saw that she didn't reply to you, and then there might be conflicts.
So the foundation of long-distance relationship is mutual trust, sincerity and love. Of course, you must also be wise. If you often have no news at all for several days, then you have the right to ask if she is too busy, sad or sick. If not, gently tell her that you are worried and she is also very worried. I miss her. If possible, can I also take time to chat with you. If she still loves you, she will seriously consider your reasonable proposal.
If you are in a long-distance relationship, when youStart making your own living arrangements, and then chat with her about your life and the fun things happening around you during breaks. Ask her if you have any undecided questions, and listen to her talk about her favorite books and movies. Listen to her life. Take your time and figure out the chat content that you and he are comfortable with. You must communicate in the right amount at the right time to understand each other's latest. This kind of long-distance relationship is actually very beautiful.
