In daily life, many boys will meet a girl they like and want to pursue her through various methods. Chasing girls is a technical job, so what are the most taboo things about chasing girls? Let’s take a look at it in detail!
What are the most taboo things about chasing girls?
1. Labeling
The first thing is: I am not very good at talking, please bear with me. I am straight-tempered and I don’t say what I want. To be honest, I'm not a homebody and I'm not as envious as you guys. This kind of... girls with good self-control will say it's okay. It doesn't matter. When you are really criticized for saying the wrong thing and being too straight-tempered and being too nerdy, and your points are deducted to the Pacific Ocean, you will understand the meaning of not talking nonsense.
2. Agree casually
A man who agrees to something even though he is not sure whether he can do it gives people a very hypocritical and fake feeling. Such a man is very unattractive to girls. like. Therefore, men should be careful not to agree casually when doing things.
3. Being stingy and shabby
It is a good thing to be frugal and frugal, but it is not a good thing to be too frugal and frugal. Many girls hate men who care about everything. Girls like men who are generous and willing to spend money for themselves, so men should not be too stingy when they should be generous, otherwise they will not be able to chase girls.
4. Bring bad emotions to each other
There will always be many conflicts when two people live together, but we are together to be happy, not to be sad. It is my duty to be willing to share your sorrow, but it is your duty not to let me share your troubles.
5. Want to change the other person
Turn her into what you want, but yourself But they are still standing still, who would be willing to engage in such a loss-making business. When you are in love, two people will change to some extent, so just let nature take its course, and don't be too forceful in asking the other person to change for you.
6. Absent-mindedness
When dating the girl you like, it is very taboo to be absent-minded. You should concentrate on listening to what the other person is saying. If you are so absent-minded even on dates when you are chasing others, it will only make the girl think that you are an extremely unreliable person, which is a very bad impression.
7. Joking randomly
Joking can sometimes bring fun to life, but it should be done in moderation. Excessive joking will only cause bad effects. And when you were chasing a girl, you and she weren't that familiar, and we didn't have a very sweet relationship yet, so be careful when joking.
8. Half-hearted
If you are nice to the girl when you are chasing her, but pay attention to other girls or things, this is very taboo and will make the girl I think your half-heartedness is very unreliable. It will also make her feel that you don't respect her, or that you just likeHer body or looks rather than the people who like her. So men should have some snacks when chasing girls
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1. Not neatly dressed and not paying attention to appearance and image.
This is the first impression that girls like. The quality of appearance directly affects a girl’s outlook. A good appearance can give people a fresh, fresh and natural feeling, which can also Reflects a person's cultivation.
2. A boy who confesses his love once he meets you will love you forever;
If you meet him today, the next day you will tell him: You are beautiful, I like you very much, I Will love you forever. You reveal your needs prematurely. Let me say that you are that annoying fly that buzzes in the ear when you see someone. Do you think he can love you?
3. See money as garbage and spend it lavishly;
This kind of boy thinks that spending money on a girl, buying her gifts, taking her to eat in high-end restaurants, is generous. , always thinking that this can win the love of girls. In fact, this is exactly the opposite. Girls will think that you are spending money to buy love, which also reflects that in real life, you are not the kind of boy who lives at home.
4. Lack of self-confidence and no opinions of his own;
No matter what you do, you must ask her for her opinion. If you give alms to a beggar, you have to ask him if he won two dollars. Consider yourself a failure before you even try. In one word, such a boy is "unpromising."
5. Be cruel and ruthless in doing things.
A puppy barked twice at his girlfriend, then kicked and beat her, leaving him lying on the ground dying. Although you are loving and protecting her, your actions really make her unable to imagine how you will treat her in the future, and she will be afraid of you.
6. You are disconnected from your past;
Before you met her, you may have been in love, and you were still in contact with her from time to time. In this way, girls will think that you are not A person who loves her wholeheartedly is not single-minded in his feelings.
7. Being hypocritical, telling lies, and not being punctual;
Doing things without being punctual, saying one thing and doing another, and often lying in front of her , acted dishonestly in front of her.
Things to note when chasing girls
1. Be confident. No matter how ugly or poor you are, you must be confident. Maybe the girl you like likes you like this. So before pursuing a girl, you must have confidence.
2. Don’t think that you can catch up with all girls if you are rich or handsome. Girls with moral character will appreciate your connotation more, so when getting along with each other, you must show your Cultivation and grace.
3. Be careful not to be arrogant or arrogant.Show off your strengths and capital at every turn. This will give people a feeling of frivolity. Don't brag either. Girls are not fools, they can see your advantages. Girls like guys who have depth.
4. Being cultivated and connotative does not mean that you should give up your personality. On the contrary, boys with personality nowadays will fascinate girls. However, the expression of this personality must be well controlled, and don’t be too impatient. Anti-canine.
5. Be generous. Even if you have no money, don’t be so stingy in front of the girl you like. I’m not telling you to be extravagant and show off, but don’t be too fussy about it. Of course, many girls still like rich boys, but I have never looked down on such kitsch girls.
6. When pursuing beautiful women, you will definitely pay a lot, but you may not get anything in return. But don't talk about what you did for her all day just because you paid so much. This will make them look down on you. On the surface, a girl won't be affected by your efforts, but she is still very happy on the inside. She will definitely remember what you do for her. Try to maintain a hard-working style!
7. Some people say not to give random gifts to girls. I don't agree with this. I think you should give them gifts and do more things for them. Girls with a conscience will feel that they owe you and will not have the heart to refuse your date, etc., so that they can get the chance to get along with you. Of course, the prerequisite for giving a gift is that the girl has a good impression of you.
8. You can deceive her, but don’t let her know that you deceived her, otherwise you will be finished. It depends on your level of lying. Of course, it’s better to be sincere!
9. You must learn to say sweet words. Although everyone knows that sweet words are coaxing, girls just love to hear them. Don't be afraid of being disgusting and artificial. Even though I know it's false, I still say it.
10. Women are honored by those who please themselves. So we have to praise them often. Even if they are as ugly as Zhao Benshan, we still have to say that they look like gods. They may not necessarily believe it, but they must be very happy in their hearts.
11. Learn to do romantic things. Remember, any girl likes romance, even if she is usually serious. I once lit a heart with a candle under my ex-girlfriend’s dormitory. Many people think I am shameless, but I win the hearts of beautiful women.
12. As the saying goes, men are not bad, but women are not loving. When you get to know each other well, you can make a girl happy by being mean-spirited, saying naughty words, and touching her. Don't always be such a gentleman, that will give people a feeling of indifference.
13. Never slander your love rival in front of her. We should show magnanimity and secretly slander him! Appropriate praise of your love rival will make her appreciate you more.
14. Be careful, pay attention to her usual words, and give her a sudden surprise. For example, when I was pursuing a girl, the night before she casually said that these shoes were a bit tight. The next day I went to town in the rain to buy her a new pair of shoes. She was greatly moved.
15. If you want to be her boyfriend, you must be with herfriends become friends. Buy her friends. When you are not successful yet, the person who will accompany her must be her good friends. Her good friends will speak good words for you, and you will get twice the result with half the effort. This also helps to understand her character and details.
16. Be persistent. When you ask her out, she may reject you for the first time, but don't give up. You have to find ways to ask her out and take the initiative to ask her out whenever you have the chance. Make her feel good about you every time you go on a date, and make her feel happy, and there will be more dating opportunities in the future.
17. Be hot and cold, advance and retreat. You can study with her in the same study room for 4 or 5 days in a row, send her text messages and call her for 3 or 4 days in a row, but suddenly you will be cold to her for one or two days, which will appropriately reduce her appetite and make her feel distant. Not driving you.
18. In fact, the best trick, and the one everyone loves to use, is to be good friends with her first. This way you will have more opportunities to perform and have more chances of success. But what many people fail to do is to get along too well, which will make the other person have no feelings for you. So to make you her friend, rather than letting her become your friend, try to show all your advantages, but don't reveal your past and your thoughts easily. It will be more attractive to keep a sense of mystery.
19. Be motivated. Even if you don't like learning, you still have to show your ambition in front of her. And in the process of getting along, you must show your shrewdness and competence. Girls in this era will not like cowardly and ordinary men.
20. Don’t act like she won’t marry you, but make her feel that you are very important to her and make her unable to live without you. If we meet a girl who likes to hang out with boys, wouldn't we be in a big loss?
- When we are in a relationship, we can’t figure out her preferences and personality. At this time, you have to be a little mysterious so that she doesn’t understand you. When you get to know her, her clothes and personality will immediately become what she likes. That kind of boy.
22. Have a sense of humor, but don’t be too poor, and don’t tell a joke multiple times. Humor doesn’t mean you can only tell jokes. But I don't know how to have a sense of humor, since I'm very poor anyway.
- When you feel that there is no hope of chasing her, you can give up for a while to give the other person space to think and give yourself time to re-examine yourself. Make a new plan and appear in front of her with a new attitude. This is called retreating to advance.